On saturday morning (around 6)i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time, we were both virgins. During the first 5 to 10 sec we didnt put the condom on but then we did and finished but he didnt ***. Then when we woke up (about 9)i noticed that i had gotten my period so does this mean that i am not pregnant from this experience?
Well then this morning he said i couldnt get pregnant during my period so we had sex again ,and again with no condom. So when he was ready to *** he tried to pull out but he said a little got inside me when he was pulling out so can i gat pregnant from this?
It is possible to get pregnant whenever you have unprotected sex. Since you are on your period right now, it is not very likely, but remember that sperm can live inside you for a few days. If you are going to be having sex and do not want to get pregnant, you need to use protection every time.
You can get pregnant on your period, so get emergency contraception. The term "morning-after pill" is kind of a misnomer, because you really have up to five days after unprotected sex to take it. However, the sooner you take it, the better. Call your doctor or go to Planned Parenthood tomorrow. And while you're at it, ask about your birth control options (and always use condoms!), so you don't have this worry in the future :-)
i agree with monkey flower....5 of my friends thought like you and had babies from having sex only on their periods. a woman can ovulate at anytime during her cycle, not all woman ovulate 14 days prior to menses, and younger woman...under 20 tend to have irregular ovulations and random ones. so always use a condom w/ spermacide and another form of birth control ...patch, pill, diaphram, nuva ring, or IUD...if you are going to be sexually active even once. condoms alone are only 87% effective, and they can break, fall orr, or leak. call your docter or local family planning, or clinic and ask for the morning after pill. the last time i took it it was 72 hrs after unprotested sex...so you only have 3 days to get it. it could have changed to 5 days....drugs are better now....but don't risk it...the sooner you take it the more effective it is. good luck and be safe and responsible.
re-read the posts above. suggestions on what to get and where are there but just because you have decided not to have sex until you are better protected doesnt mean you are 100% in the clear right now. im sure you are but there are many woman with stories to tell on how they got pregnant when they were not trying or some rare/unusual circumstance. maybe you should re-think having sex altogether. you are only 16. save all that for when you are older..it will have more meaning, you'll be more knowlegable, and gives you something to look forward to. easier said then done, so if not, please visit a gynocologist (you should anyway if you are sexually active) and talk w. your dr. about birth control options ok? does you mom/guardian know whats going on? shouldnt go through this alone.
yes, if this was your first time having intercourse, he may have broken your hymen. give it more thought as to if it really was indeed your period/not. like are you due for it? was it heavy? cramping etc...or was it just a bit of blood. sometimes the hymen gets broken and you dont really know it. please know what you are doing out there okay??
thanks you guys and yes i was due for my period and i still have it i am only 16 and i dont know how to get any of those pill things you are talking but i dont plan on doing it again until i have more protection
yes, those are words of a teenager and i said the same thing as you are saying with each of the 3 boyfriends i had before i got married. i was in love with each one, he was the one i was going to be with forever. no,the next one was the one, we were gonna get married. nooo, not that one either. you are sooo playing with fire. you sound like you are in a dream world. i have been there. guys tell you what they think you want to hear. please reconsider having intercourse from now on.there are other ways to show you 2 care for each other that are more appropriate for your age.i fooled around a lot w. guys when i was young (no sex though) and even as i look back now i was way too young for that. i didnt have sex until i was about 18/19 and he was my first and my last (we married). you also think your mom doesnt or wont suspect/figure it out. moms have senses about their kids that you dont even know about. if she doent know now, she will suspect in time.
if you wont take my advice and not have sex then go to the gynocologist and talk about birth control options. dont forget, you can get all kinds of diseases out there. you dont know if he is 100% faithful. he's a teenager for god sakes. do you know how many guys "cheated" on me while we were dating? he swore up and down he wasnt. i believed him. i even believed him when he had a hickey on his neck that was not from me. he said he was wrestling with his buddy and he pinched him. c'mon now! the mind of a teen will believe him. i wish i could just make you understand, i really do but you know how stubborn teens are and you will simply have to learn/discover it all on your own. you will have tons of tears along the way, and many more dates and many break ups. hopefully it will only make you stronger. just out of curiosity, how old are you exactly and how long have you been dating this guy before you slept w. him? ps: dont get me wrong, there are lots of cases where teens do end up marrying the one but its pretty rare.
well my mom said if i ever had sex she would send me away and i know shes serious besides i know for a fact that the boy i am with right now is the only boy i will ever be with i would not have had sex with him if i thought we would not be together forever but i know words of a teenager and i told him i am worried but he says i shouldnt be and that everything is going to be fine
i know it is a rare case for teens to get married but i am one of those kids that didnt have what most people like to call an easy life so i think a lot more about things than most kids my age and i know i am still a kid and i dont want to grow up yet i just want to be happy and i know we dont have to have sex to be happy so its not like we have to do it we are in love and it may sound dumb but i cant lie me nor him have had any serious relationships before and he had already asked me to marry him before we were dating i sing to him and it makes him cry i know he loves me and we have been together for 2 years and he had never done ANYTHING with a girl before me and i have never done anything except kiss a boy before him.
hi samantha, im glad you posted back. it sounds as if you two really care about each other and thats fantastic. all i am saying if you choose to have intercourse, go to a gynocologist to get regular pap smears, and discuss birth control options.if you do not, then use a condom when you have intercourse. just know that even condoms are not 100% effective..which im sure you know.if you are going to do adult things then seeing a dr. every year is one of those adult things to do too. no one likes it but taking care of your body and preventing pregnancy, STD's are all part of it. do you feel weird not filling your mom in on whats going on? just be careful w. that too because the guilt has a way of creeping up on you. when i was younger i was with an older boy fooling around. all i could think about was my mom! i knew i shouldnt have been doing those things (not sex though)just a reminder, but felt like she'd be disappointed if she knew. anyway, aside from that, do you see a dr? you didnt say. dont hesitate to ask questions here if you dont have anyone to talk to ok? its a scarey world out there.
The chances are slim, but it is possible. The reason is that the sperm can live inside your body for a few days after you have sex. Then, if you ovulate early in your cycle, the sperm will meet the egg. However, this takes long-living sperm and an early ovulation, so that's why the chances are slim
If you are late for your NEXT period, then you can take a hpt. Taking a hpt before your next period is due might give you a false positive, so be sure to wait until you are late (if you are).
i am really worried!i cam on my period on 11th june and came off on the 17th. i had sex on the 22nd with a bloke but he did ejaculate and if he did he pulled out well before becasue we didnt even finish.a week later i was having sex with my ex boyfriend about 5 or 6 times since i came off my period and 3 times we did not use a condom and he did ejaculate up me 2ce.I was due on my period on the 8th july but i never came on so i tk a test and now im pregnant,is ther any way of whos more likely to be the dad cz im so worried about this cz im certain its my ex 99% but i have that lil 15 worry as my ovulation would of started after me and this other bloke got together so it is more than likely to be my exs than the other one ?xxxx
i understandhow you feel about your boyfreind i was the same i was 13 when i first meet my first boyfreind and he was 16 i lost my virginity to him at 14 and we are still together now 7 years on we are married with 2 children so totally agree and belive you when you say you are in love with him.
on the other hand men can also be nasty creaturs, so just be aware.
and please be safe and use contraception.
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