please help a girl out

[Josephone]

Hello, I need advice. my boyfriend and I had sex 3 and a half weeks ago, I thought I felt something tear.  We stopped and went to sleep.  I woke up and there was a small tear where my vagina ends.  I was embarressed.  I gave it a week and it seemed to have looked better.  we tried sex again, and it happened again. I'm concerned that this could be something other than a tear, because we tried again, and the same thing happened.  Is it common for this to happen?  How long does it take for a tear to heal?  I'm so afraid and my boyfriend is frustrated. any advice?

[Kingsprincess08]

This is not normal. Either your boyfriend is too big for you, or he is being too rough. You should really go get it looked at by a doctor, because if it is tearing at the entrance it could be tearing somewhere else too. The wall between your vagina and your anus is very thin, and could easily tear if you have too violent sex. If this were to happen you could get either very bad infections or even a sexually transmitted disease. I would highly advise going to a gyno. doctor.

Hope this is helpful :)