please help me im very worried

[michel7869]

HI IM VERY WORRIED IM HAVING SEX WITH MY PARTNER FOR 8 YEARS ALREADY 2 OR 3 TIMES A WEEK SOMETIMES IT GETS TOO ROUGH..2 WEEKS AGO MY VAGINA AREA WAS RED ITCHING AND i HAD A LIITLE SOMETHING THERE I TOUGHT IT WAS NOTHING I'VE PUT SO MANY THINGS TO IT AND IT BECAME A SORE I COULDN'T EVEN WALK, I WENT TO THE DOCTOR AND SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE DIDNT THINK WAS HERPES, THAT MAYBE I CUT MYSELF SHAVING,  BUT SHE DID THE CULTURE AND SHE TOLD ME SHE'LL CALL ME...SHE NEVER DID, THE NEXT DAY I WAS FINE THE ULCER WAS COMPLETLY GONE, LAST NIGHT I HAD SEX AGAIN IT WAS TOO ROUGH WHEN I WENT TO SHOWER I NOTICE BURNING IN THE AME AREA AND THIS MORNING WHEN I CHEK I HAVE A LITTLE CUT IN THE SAME SPOT AS THE FIRST TIME IT LOOKS LIKE A CUT, I HAVE NO INSURANCE AND I CALLED THE FREE CLININC AND THEY WANNA GIVE ME AN APPOITMENT FOR APRIL I DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS IM VERY WORRIED I CAN EVEN WORK I'VE BEEN CRYING SINCE I SAW IT THIS MORNING WHAT SHOULD I PUT?????I HAVE NO MONEY TO GO TO A REGULAR DOCTOR PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

[michel7869]

please someone answer me

[michel7869]

ok u are right but can I get a cut from that?

[jussme]

I have never heard of that.  I like it rough and I get sore from it but never cut.  do you shave or is it to dry when you guys do it or what.  Try the Ky and just tell him to take it a little easier.

[michel7869]

i know what Im worried about is hat the cut is in the same place as the ulcer that I had 2 weeks ago im afraid it could be something else I dont know what to put cause the last time I've was so desperate that I end it uo putting alcohol on it and u can imagine the pain.

[xrayu2]

Do you have any children?  I have a scar near the vaginal opening from an episiotomy that will get a small tear on occasion.  Have you been with anyone else to suspect an std or do you suspect anything from your partner?  Depending on what you are using during rough sex, maybe it is causing a small rip or tear in the skin.  Try and antibiotic ointment-that will cause less burn.

[t-c]

I'm not sure I understood your post but it sounds like your calling the red itchy cut which turned into a sore the ulcer,which your doctor cultured and never called you back )and in another interaction started to burn and was cut in the same place.
If this is correct the fact that your doctor did not call you back is a good thing because they don't normally call if there nothing to worry about. I am in your sit. as far as no insurance and no how embarrising it can be to go into a pharmacy asking about something for your bestfriend so to speak, but what I would suggest is just calling the pharmacy and asking over the phone what may help and where to find it in the store and then going and purchasing, because if you do not give the area enought time to heal you'll probably has this problem for a quite along time and would suggest a break in the interactions so agressively or all together otherwise it could get alot more serious and also. VERY IMPORTANT keep the appointment, I know that it's along way off but even if you start to feel better with what ever product you find it could start up again right after the apointment and then you'll have to wait that much longer. and also stop taking what ever the product maybe a few weeks before the appointment so that you can receive accurate results.
God Bless
T-C

[krouserw]

normally due to rough sex and lack of lube sometimes a cut will happen soreness and some bleeding its nothing to really worry about but if it doesnt stop within a day or two then start to worry. Rough sex is common is most couples.

[lawgirl17]

I agree with a lot of what they said, but I would add that if you have a tender spot, you are more likely to chaff because you are rubbing against already sensitive skin. Definitely keep the appointment, call the doctor to request the test results, etc. to confirm that everything is normal, and remain abstinent for a WEEK. It is important to give your body time to heal by ignoring the fact that you have a sensitive area and having rough intercourse, you are disallowing your body to heal. I especially agree with the others in telling him to mellow out a bit ... he should know that you are having this problem, and he needs to be compassionate enough to care about your protection. It is important to allow time to heal, so take a week off, and then take it easy for the next couple of weeks (and use the KY). Good luck with the results!

[stressed female]

hi my hubby likes ruff sex so can relate to u babe. try coloidal silver on it. you can get it from the health shop. its distilled water with silver particles in it. don't know what it wud cost there, i'm in the uk, but i have a machine that makes it and it is brilliant at healing cuts n sores down below. do a general search on the net for more info on its benifits. try to keep the area as dry as poss and get as much air as you can to it, lay off the sex for a while, have a long period or thrush, that always works for me. gud luck babe hugs to u xx