pls pls pls help me

[kalla538]

hi

pls any one can help ..i need suggestion from you actually i am 11 weeks 2days : pregnant and doctor said no heart beat when i went in 7weeks 2days she said baby is having really strong heart beat i saw some brown discharge yesterday took app right way and they did ultrasound to me now they are saying baby is passed away pls any one can help me what to do now ....i have to wait more weeks or i have to go for d/c and this is my frist baby happening like this pls some one help in this

Thanks

[loveth]

you are the first person i have to give a comment. so all i see there is that you don't have to be worried , only believe in God and you will see the right thing happen to you. what if you wait and see thsame pregnancy still develop to full baby and your delivered that same child is it wonderful. so relax your mind and report every other side effect.

[kalla538]

she said may be after a week i will have bleeding she gave me 3options if u want to wait untill natural miscarriage u can or u can go for d/c an time she says so ii am not understanding what to do no one is there to suggest me even my husband dont now anything abt this

[Kim1989]

honestly if your baby doesnt have a heart...theres not much you can do but wait. did the doctor say you were going to miscarry naturally or have to have a dnc?

[kalla538]

yes kim ...so what i have to do now i am crying since moring

[Kim1989]

usually bright blood can mean a miscarriage....dark brown is usually ok in pregnancy. so im kinda suprised. im sorry for your lost i guess they didnt see a heartbeat now?