safest method of hair removal

[tannu]

Though am 23, i have never been in a relationship going anywhere near sexual intimacy.Now,I am into a my first relationship and my guy doesnt like hair down there. i have always been shaving PARTIALLY because am kinda scared of using anything including hair removing gels near the vagina or clits. i have always limited shaving to the groins or further to the periphery.
What is the best and safest way of COMPLETE hair removal?

Please help.

[boosty]

i would go to the salon and have it professionally waxed. the firt time maybe a bit painful, but most people do it and they get used to it easy. dont try to wax or anything at home. you will end up bleeding and stuff.

[tannu]

hi dear,
its definetely not about being a masochist coz my guy has never forced or coaxed me to do it..rather i came to know about his preference while we were chatting away! Am jus trying to find out if I can give him that surprise!!
But thanks anyways for wishing me luck!!

[PeachyPanda]

i agree with the comments above, dont do it for the guy, do it for urself!  i had sugaring done a year ago for the first time, and yes it hurted, but what doesnt!  but i can say u do feel very different, and the result is great!  totally worth trying!  much better than waxing.  less chance of bacterial contammination.  here's a site that'll give u some info on sugaring.  
- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Depilation for general info on hair removal
- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sugaring_%28epilation%29 for info on sugaring
- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waxing for info on waxing
hope it helps  =D

[Trialanderror]

Good luck. Enjoy if you`re a masochist!

[pertykitty]

ive never had a brazilian. a bikini wax hurts , but i guess pain is only temp right haha. my friends that do it say you lay there, you hold yourself in this way and that way while they remove hair. some might use a numbing gel to help. just be prepared to spread and hold!

[tannu]

Thanks a tonne!!!
we did talk about it and i think i would try the brazillian wax once...if its not too painful!! i dont know if it is...is it???

[littlemissstar51]

brazillian's are the best! i feel so much cleaner and none of the irritations that come along w/shaving. take 2 advils an hour before and "no scream cream" might help.

http://www.beehivewaxingsalon.com/boutique.html

i haven't tried it but if you're scared, it's an option....

[sparkeler]

Get a Brazilian Wax.

[Trialanderror]

Most guys don`t know and care what an ordeal it is to get totally hairless down there. I would first work on your boyfriend by getting him used to the thought that it is only going to be a trim or a partial shave. Or do it once and let him experience the stubbles of re-growth the next day...It definitely irritates and dries out the delicate skin in that area. Save that for the occasional treat if he really is that much into it, but don`t forget to tell him that you would like his chest or his private area waxed as well... He might change his mind altogether.

[lucylocket2]

I shave, but make sure ya use a GOOD gel or cream. I also put vasoline on it after I shave. Walk around naked for awhile. lol It seems like my undies rub it and then razor burn starts. It does suck when it starts growin back. It itches!!!

[pertykitty]

welllllll the cheapest way is to shave. but for most that means being very careful (cutting yourself is painful!). creams you cant put that close as they will burn the skin inside the vagina. waxing is the best (but very painful) way as it removes all the hair. it could get costly if you keep it up. also you should know that hair is supposed to be there. the gal that waxes me says she wont remove it all since it can cause problems with bacteria and i forgot what else. i know many women will come back saying they do and have no problems. i have shaved it, and i dont like the feeling of my clothes rubbing when it starts to grow back. . and remember....its your body haha.