seriously, are large labias sexy?

[hollister_babe]

Im thinking about having sex for the first time, but i have a large labia.

is it really a turn on?
be very honest please.

im not a kid, i can take the truth.

[KaylensMommyplus1]

I honestly wouldn't worry about it!!!! Seriously!

When you're having sex, the guy (unless he has a fetish) is not paying that much close attention to your labia. After you get comfortable with him, you may eventually do oral - but again, most guys are so happy to be with a woman - he could care less about body flaws.

You can always have sex with the lights off...less pressure.

[sweet_cheeks]

yeah i really wouldnt worry about it. he should only be so lucky to be able to get with you! thats what i would think anyways. theres a chance hes worried about something on himself too.

[hollister_babe]

thanks guys!

i dont know its just really embarassing but i love my boyfriend so much.

[hollister_babe]

can i have some guys input?

[JAXX55]

First of all, WHO says it's a "flaw"! I can tell you this much-MY husband acts as if it's something that he feels lucky to have gotten in me. He says his last girlfriend had NO labia(barely there) and that it feels TEN TIMES better for him with ME because of my larger labia. So THERE to all of you who call it a flaw!? It's more like you're lucky to have it. It's an ENHANCEMENT, NOT a hindrance... HELLO!? Kind of like a guy who has a larger penis---we all know that guys want the largest penis he can possibly have, right? Well, it certainly is NOT a flaw, that's ridiculous! MEN LOVE IT....   =) Enjoy!

[spot2008]

I have had large labias all my life.. When I first had my baby the doctors actually smirked and looked at my hubby.. Then the guy sewing me up made a comment.
I had my second child delivered by midwifes nothing said...
My third child was born the midwife and doctor both made comments about how big they were.. the midwife actually said how odd..
I am so embarrest by them I would love surgery still and I am now 43.
I get so embarrest when I go for smear tests or anything else down below..
My hubby says they are big but he is used to them.. But the thought of anything happening to my hubby and me having to start a new relationship scares the life out of me.. I feel so different

[ashe127]

im 15 and my labia minor. are long and strethy. its really embarrasing. im afraid to have a guy look at my vagina cuz i think he'll be grossed out. ive been researching alot if guys like it or hate it and honestly most said they love it. it makes me feel a little better, but im still really embarassed and grossed out. Its not just about the guys either, i hate seeing myself naked at all. it really lowers my self confidence

[RayBay]

oh my god honey. If he really stares at it and says "ew I dont want to do anything with you because your labia is big" then he is RETARDED. like seriously who looks at those thingss??? your vagina is OBVIOUSLY an embaressing part of your body already and everyone's is different. i have shaving bumps on mine and no one has ever said anything. don't worry. some guys might think its sexy!! but i really don't think they will stare at it and tell u what they think!

[Secrect]

wtf is a labia?

[banter]

Go here to find what "labia" is -

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labia_minora

hollister_babe, as to some input from a guy, no, the size of a girl's labia would have no effect on my feeling for the girl.  As somebody else recently said on these forums, most sex occurs between the ears, i.e., in the head.  

I haven't actually even seen large labia (um, outside of computer-based porn photos) but I could imagine that it could possibly enhance sex for a couple.

But, as they say "it ain't what you have, it's what you do with it that counts!"

[uniqueflower]

i realy love some delicious labia , m m m, i love sucking on some big ens...grrr

[johnohara]

From a man....never ever be ashamed of large labia. Most men find it extremely sexy and stimulating when a woman has a little meat (or a lot for that matter ) hanging out down there. I call it prosciutto. john_o_hara***@****

[huntingboy]

i am a guy and i think large labias are very sexy and are a turn on

[simple_man]

I am a guy who is in fact married to a woman with large labia. she too is a bit embarrased by them, and none of you should be. I find that large labia are EXTREMELY beautiful and a huge turn on. One of the real shames of this world is the popularity of vaginoplasty. Ladies, unless you have had some injury, or they are so large that they actually cause you physical pain, PLEASE leave them alone, embrace them, be proud of them. They are the center of your sexualiy and they are beautiful. And kaylensmommy, All guys notice them. Any man who claims not to notice them, or who doesn't appreciate them is either lying to you, is too new at life in general to know what he wants, and probably wouldn't know what to do with it if he did, or he isn't all that into what you have in the in the first place if you catch my drift. best of luck to you.