sex

[anjali295]

my boy friend had several times sex but whenever we do i never get enjoyment but my boy friend enjoy alot. so how do i enjoy my sex?

[Rugger1369]

have you talked about this with him? communication is def key to a healthy sexual relationship.

try switching positions. on top is a good start since you will have more control and be able to adjust so you feel good. have him touch you directly, you might just need a lil something extra.

get it girl!

[Anonymouse88]

It helps if you know what you do like.  If you don't masturbate, you should start.  Masturbation lets you figure out what does and doesn't work for you, without having to worry about the feelings of a partner.  Once you know that, you can ask your boyfriend to do those things.  

Keep in mind that many women do not orgasm from vaginal intercourse.  Some women can only have an orgasm with oral sex.  If you're both willing, ask your boyfriend to try oral sex with you, before having intercourse.  Even if you don't have an orgasm, you'll probably be more aroused, which might help you enjoy things more.  Also use lube.  Lots of lube.  Don't use oil, because it breaks down condoms and creates a place for bacteria to grow.  Use a water or silicon based lubricant.  You can also try being on top of him.  This lets you control the pace, and make sure he doesn't go too fast.  A vibrator that you can use during sex might also help, and will probably feel good for him too.

Remember, a good boyfriend will be willing to try to help you enjoy sex as well.  If he's not willing to at least try, or doesn't care how you feel as long as he's happy, it's time to start looking for a different boyfriend.