I have this same problem!
It isnt my man, and i know im lubricated enough....the nurse i saw told us to use more lube, which we did and that didnt work!
Im going to see a urogynacologist (its painful to have sex and i think its something to do with my urethra) and hopefully ill find out whats causing the problems
The nurse did ask if i used condoms cause it sounded like an allergic reaction but we dont so its rather odd!...have had swabs done and theres nothing there so im stumped lmao
Thanks for the advice I'll try that
I have had this before if your man's penis is a larger size. It can irritate your vagina if you are not lubricated enough.. if you haven't tried using Astroglide or some type of lubrication. I suggest doing it.. OR, if this is a consistent issue you are having, you should see a doctor in case you have some other issue going on that may need to be treated.