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Though I have had an orgasm without the use of a vibrator only a handful of times in my 35 years, it seems as though I am dependent upon vibrators to get there and I am stuck with having to use one the rest of my life.  Is there no other help out there?  I need an alternative. My husband absolutely hates me using the vibrator on my clitoris during sex.  He feels like theres another man in the bedroom and that I dont need him.  This issue is causing a major problem.  Is there any other way?  Does Viagra or any other medication help to increase sensation of the clitoris?
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1144748 tn?1261337797
I had this problem, i found that there were a couple of vibrators that got me used to having orgasm at the same time as deep penetration, the rampant rabbit thruster and the glitterati vibrator with a clitoral one, i found that after a while, couple months, i was able to orgasm without the clitoris being stimulated, hopefully this helps, it can be really embarrasing when this is the case. Hopefully ure partner understands, also if u stimulate the clitoris for a relatively long period before sex this often helps.
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222282 tn?1210164939
there are creams that you can apply to the clitoris that enhance pleasure , i work for a uk based company and we sell them ! we also sell books that can help your hb to improve his teqnique too . not sure of world wode products though but im sure you can get them anywhere ! good luck x x
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HELP!
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