torn skin

[chevy1392]

My perineum tears while having sex.  I have had issues with the ducts not working and have had to have them drained.  I often get swollen and it hurts.  How can I stop the tearing, is there anything I can use to protect the skin? We do use lube but my skin always tears.

[Jenni6485]

Some women are just small down there.. And a combination of a small vagina and a larger penis can be painful and can tear the skin.
My boyfriend told me about this girl he used to sleep with, she was super tiney down there, and everytime they had sex, she'd bleed all over the sheets.
Well then she got pregnant and couldnt deliver vaginally....

Just as there are some women small, there are some women who are larger, and some who are just right.
It's a part of our anatomy.
You could probably look it up on the internet, and find ways to have sex without the tearing. Lube dosnt always work, maybe if you try before he gets fully erected, and losen the area up, that may help, so as he gets bigger it wouldnt tear so much.
Hope you find a solution.

[babyblues7]

i am rather small down there and i have the same problem. it hurts my partner and me when we begin having sex. but lube never used to work because i was allergic to some. now i found durex tingle, it adds to the sensation causing tingling. it make you produce more moisture and really helps. if that doesnt work for you i would go see a doctor, tearing everytime you have sex is not good for you.

[lor617]

google "Lichensclorosis" i had the same symptoms (still do sometimes) this was my diagnosis.... hopes this helps