hello, im 22 years old he is a divorced 33 year old man. i've being dating him for more than 4 months now. We both when to the doctor to do a std and hiv/aids test and everything was good. We did it before having sex because he told me he did a surgery to not have kids he has 2 with his ex wife... so we never used condoms because im not going to get pregnant. Sex is great but the last 2 times my vagina lips were swollen like crazy. The first time when we finish having sex i took a bath and looked myself in the mirror my vagina lips were big. I slept with my legs open because it hurts a bit. The next morning i felt like new the pain and the swollen lips were gone for good, but it happened again, but this time the lips were bigger...We dont used lubricant because im always wet when having sex. Now that i remember the first time my vagina was swollen we played around with chocolate and wipped cream, but the second time he and i went right to the point...I dont kn what is happening this never happen before.. i just met him and with my 2 last ex boyfriend this never happened...Also after the first time it happen i took a pee it didnt hurt of burn, but the second time i felt like my vagina was getting burn so bad ... i need help what should i do i love to have sex with him he is really good but i dont want to think about the aftermath of having sex