virgin

[momoqwerty]

am aged 22 and still a virgin. going to my honeymoon in 2 days time. am scared because of whay i had about breaking the hymen being a painful thing. what can i do to prevent it from being painfull .
yours concerned.

[katebud]

whatever you do, DO NOT let him do you doggie style the first time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  That is the most awful, painful thing ever!  You may want him to f*nger you for a little bit to try to get some stuff stretched out a bit.  The more relaxed you are the better of an expirience it will be.  Maybe you could talk to him about it today or something, if that would be something that wouldn't tempt you before the wedding night...?

AND CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!  I so much had wished I had waited until I was married before having sex...I don't think anyone who actually waits ever regrets the waiting!!!  

Have fun ;)

[Ellie252]

When I first had sex i had a few drinks 1st it was still painful though i also found that me being ontop was alot less painful than on the bottom good luck

[ireneo]

The thing is to take it slow and easy. That may be difficult for your hubby because he's going to be happy and excited. Mostly it feels like a stretching and stinging sensation. Just ask him to take it easy. Also give yourself time to get excited because the extra lubrication your body produces will help. Congratulations! Happy honeymoon.

[Kim1989]

its not the hymen being broken thats painful, its the sex for the first time itself. i dont think theres anyway around it. its really not like so painful

most of th time the hymen is broken before you have sex anyways