wettness

when my husband and i have sex he said that i am to wet what does that come from and how do i get rid of it

[hands_on]

And he doesn't like that....WHY??

[BabyHardiman]

He must be doing something right!  He "floats your boat" so to speak.  Tell him to be happy about that!

[GRose]

I know what you mean, your just very aroused and there is nothing you can do to stop it. Sometimes I get a little too wet also, we just wipe some of the moisture off onto a towel and keep on going. There is such a thing as being too wet, when you are TOO wet it doesn't feel as good, like there isnt enough friction or something. Not sure how to explain.

[tashy1107]

lol not to use slang he trippin! is he crazy he doesnt enjoy that?? alot of women have trouble gettin wet and he is complainig about getin too wet?? o wow... i dnt kno... drink less water or keep a rag handy? smh (shake my head) cant belive there is actually a man out there who doesnt like the fact that he gets his lady extremly wet ..shame....

[kellbell606]

I feel your pain.  All these people that say he should enjoy it obviously have never experienced (nor looked up the word) EXCESSIVE.  We aren't talking about a little lube, here.  We are talking about a waterfall.  What makes sex feel good, people?  Friction.  If you are soaking wet, and there is no friction, then there is no pleasure.  It makes the man's penis feel tiny and you lose interest.  He also feels like he is diddling in a toilet bowl and gets no pleasure.

Trust me, this is NOT a good thing!  I suffer as well.  I have tried EVERYTHING!  The only thing that works for me is taking a shower before intercourse and using the hand-held shower head to "douche" with warm water.  No, I don't run the thing up in there, I just open my legs and spread the opening and gently spray with the water.  

However, during the day, I still have to wear a panty liner EVERY SINGLE DAY!

Now, girls, tell me - would you ENJOY that???  NO!!!

[saturniidae]

Maturbate, masturbate, masterbate!  Put that shower head on massage mode with your clit and vagina under the spraying streams and stay there until you've finished.  Do this as often as possible hours before you go for the real deal everyday if you can.  Eventually, you'll be pretty desensitized to real sex and you'll  either have to fake the real times or they won't be nearly as intense. Good luck!