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why cant i orgasm

Im only 19 years old and i already am having issues with my lower region. I cant orgasm during sex or foreplay i barely feel it. And because i hardly feel anything i lose interest in doing anything which has lead to me losing my boyfriend. I dont know what to do i cant take it anymore and i dont know what to do.Why cant i orgasm and why do i barely have feeling in my clit and is there any form a vaginal surgery anyone knows of that can fix this problem.
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I am the same way. Im 18 and have been with my boyfriend a whIle now and love him to death, but I'm not seeing that's it's all it's cracked up to be. I don't know why I have a lack of sensation. I've tried masturbating in hopes that something will come of it, but I just lose interest. Can someone help please?
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im the exact same. it feels as though i wrote the original. im 18 years old, i have been with my boyfirnd 3 years and i have never had an orgasm in my life!!!  i dont know what it feels like. ive tried masturbation and that doesnt seem to work either. i told my bf after 2.5 years of being together and told him that i had been faking and lying to him. he was understanding and knew that i had left it too long to tell him, so it spiralled. he gets frustrated becasue i have no interest in sex, but it takes some of the pressure off me. i dont think i will ever orgasm to be honest. and its upsetting. if anyone has any advice that would be great.

Many thanks

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Hey just letting you know that I have the same problem and im 18. I know how you feel I have lied to my boyfriend and pretended i enjoyed it but i feel really bad about it. I too have been losing interest and my boyfriend gets all angry and deffensive but im to scared to tell him the truth cause im afraid of how he will react. If you learn anything let me know and if any1 can post something and help it would mean the world to me. Good luck and keep your head up.
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