worried about problems

[alexini1234]

hello

my girlfriend told me a story about her childhood she is asian by the way


she is 34 old now and by teh time she was 10 her cousin boy 18 year old touched her at her vagina and also inserted his finger in her.she remember that much but she know one incident that after the incident a white discharge came out of her vagina
after this incident. she never told somebody!!!!!!! till now

she admitted after a time that she actually must liked it as, teh fact that she liked it and it was her cousin makes her feel guilty and abnormal, but she has no feeling towards her cousin but when she seest them she also dont feel hate !! That is why she thinks she is abnormal
and she said
she also tried to rub pillows to her vagina to get that sensation.her father could her once and she git punsihed.

now she has problems in way of sex and express of course


bUT HOW CAN I HELP HER WITH HER INCIDENT AT CHILDHOOD

[JJety]

She should seek professional help to work through this problem.  I'm not sure there's much you can do at this point except support her while she works through it with a professional.

Good luck, I'm sorry you're both going through such a terrible thing.