worried...10 days delayed of period

[twitums]

I had my last period Dec 29 and had unprotective contact till Jan 15. Im in normal cycel and should have my period 1st week of february. I experiencing the usual symtoms before having a period like breast tenderness,cramps,moody etc. I have vaginal discharge but its all in white, I dont urinate much. Ive been worrying this since the 1st week of delay...does it cause why Im still delayed now? Im not having a pregnancy test hoping to have my period soon. I just broke up with my BF last week of January which makes me more depressed and get more worried about this delays. I dont experience nausea. I try to drink beer because others says it would help to push the period. If im not pregnant is there anything i can do to let this period start as soon as possible? Please someone speak to me....

[t-c]

I agree with oceans3 you need to calm down and assess the situation this is nothing to play with although every one has either went through this or know/heard of  someone that has. And it is not a decision that should be taken lightly. I have taken myself through this before and know how it fills to be unsure of yourself and your decisions and this is one thing that definitely will bite you later if your not sure of your decision now. One thing I'd like to say that I think is a good step is that you and your bf are discussing it and I know how hard that can be, because I've made alot of decisions on my own to later find out I was not always by myself in making the right or wrong decision.
if there is any info or advice I can give to help I will do my best everyone needs it sometimes
God bless
T-c

[oceans3]

first, you need to calm down and digest the fact you are pregnant. second, your last post was a little confusing. what do you mean "you both decided to take it away?" did you mean to say that you "decided to take it (hpt) "anyway" OR did you mean that you plan on getting your baby aborted?
then.. you sai, "can anyone have been on this?" what do you mean? what information are you looking for?
please, now that you found out that the test came back positive, call your obgyn and go in to have a blood test to confirm. then you can talk with the dr. as to what steps you will need to take both physically and emotionally to get through this.
how old are you by the way?

[twitums]

ladies thank you for all your support and information....I am pregnant!!! just took test twice of different brand and both of them is positive. Have talk about this to my ex...and we both decided to take it away. Im afraid...can anyone have been on this? please tell me something about this....

[t-c]

sisterzeus.com has alot helpful information that you might be interested in and also heard that vitamin C in large doses might help.
be careful and may God Bless You.

[RingUser]

Please test that is the only way to know for sure.  There is nothing you can do to bring on your period with out the doctor giving your a rx for it.  It may be possible that you could be pg, but it may also be possible that your stress is causing a delay with your cycle.  There are only 3 ways to find out if  you are or if your are not.  1 take a test 2 go to the doc 3 your period showing up fast.  I say test if your not it will ease your mind.  And if you are you can figure out what you want to do early on.

[greenpixie]

Take an HPT!  That's the only way you are going to know if you are pregnant or not.  If you had unprotected sex, then yes, you have a good chance of being pregnant.  Take a test and find out.  BTW, I totally agree with the other post about drinking beer.  What were you told is in beer that is supposed to magically bring on your period?

[greenpixie]

Joannarf is right, taking the test won't make you pregnant.  You are or you aren't.  If it turns out that you are, then please educate yourself.  You have some choices, so before making a decision take some time to get informed.  I am not going to try to talk you into making any one choice.  If you are pregnant, then you don't really have any easy decisions to make.  Just take some time with it.  Obviously, if you are not pregnant, be more diligent about your birth control from now on.

[JoAnnaRF]

I agree with all the ladies, and was shocked about the Beer thing. Can you imagine if that were true, women would rule the stats for the consumption of beer. Sounds like someone was just looking for an excuse to have a few..
So please poster, just listn to what these women have said and get yourself tested. Not testing doesn't make you Not pregnant if you are.. then you are..
I wish you MUCH luck!
--J

[Dawndelion]

I agree with all the former posters. You need not apologize for your choice. Whether you are Pro Life or Pro Choice you have that right to chose either. Being Pro Life myself, I would only suggest that before you make your descision please consider all your alternatives. Thousands of people are looking to adopt and babies are very much on the list. Good luck to you.

[baby4Staci]

If you are pg, weigh out the benefits/negatives to having a baby.  OBVIOUSLY next time use some sort of birth control.  I was 18 when that happened to me and I learned my lesson.  SO good luck.. i hope you get a negative test but if you are pg and want to abort.. make sure you seek out support.. it is the toughest choice you will ever make.  AND THEN get some BC pills or condoms..

[twitums]

Thank you for your concern, sure I will take it...and i just really hope its negative...but if its positive what shall i do? i cannot have this...im sorry to people who are against abortion but there are situation that sometimes needs this matter.

[iluvu02]

i was 2 weeks late for one of my periods and i took 5 hpts and they were all negative. as soon as i calmed down and stopped stressing out...my period came. the only way youll know is if you take a test.