my freind lost her virginity and she didn't bleed. she then got fingered for the first time and she bled really bad. she's been fingered quite alot since by the same guy and she still bleeds, this has happened evrytime for the past few months. why is this, i am concerned that he is not doing it properly, am i right? she says he does it harshly and lifts her from the ground. Why does she still bleed now?