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I am about 6 weeks pregnant with my second child. Which we are thrilled about but my father_ in_ law is currently living with us and I done get along very well with h right now. Yesterday I finally had enough of his complaining about everything and anything you can think of and states my Opinion about that subject. Now he won't talk, look or even  act like im here. I don't feel like I should apologize because I just states my opinion and lost my temper for a few seconds. But im so stressed out that I can't hardly eat or want to drink. Really I just want to leave....... Please Help!!!!!
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Depending on what the argument was about, you could apologize to
your father in law. You could just let it go, but talking from experience,
these things have a way of snowballing and the longer the two of you
don't talk, misunderstandings happen . You say you are pregnant with
your second child. Congratulations. It is not good to live with stress
especially when you are pregnant.  My ex husband, I am remarried,
used to use the silent treatment on me when he was annoyed with
me, wouldn't acknowledge me, refused to talk to me. You noticed I
said ex husband. You could apologize for losing your temper. He
might say he's sorry for going on about stuff.  This might give you an
opportunity to clear the air and start talking again which would definitely ease the tension which probably exists between the two of you right
now. The end result is it will be good for everyone including your husband and your first child.  I wish you well.   Eve
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Just let it go. You arnt married to him I was n same boat I didn't even act like he was there then he finally came around. n I didn't say sorry either sometimes it just is to much
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