You ladies are so lucky!! My dh has to get up at 4am for work, so we usually only do it on Friday and Saturday. I must say that it has been a few weeks though. My dd is handicapped and sometimes I have to lay down with her to get her to bed and I fall asleep :( It is so funny because when he was on nights, he would come home from work and want me to do it, now that he has to get up early, I want him to wake up and do it. Needless to say, there is not much sex going on at our house. Also, we have two sons (13 and 12), so we have to wait till they are asleep lol. Glad someone is getting it though lol.
In my case it's about 2-3 times a week depending on my mood since I'm 27 weeks pregnant. It's getting harder by the week and we have to be very creative to find a comfortable position. Plus I'm starting to feel real tender so it's not that easy. I must say though it feels so different than before in a good way. :)
Hmmm, I notice that Laura didn't answer her own question. So how about it, Laura?
As for me, I'm going to wind up not having ANY sex until SOMEONE gets himself fixed and quits giving me these pregnancy scares! I may have to take matters in my own hands! It's just a couple of snips, right?! Or I might just join a convent or something. Maybe I can get some peace and quiet there. :) There are some days that sound real nice.
Yeah, I know. I'm in a weird mood tonight. :P
We do the deed almost everyday except on Wednesdays when the kids come over for the night and every other weekend. The 4 year old still crys to sleep in Daddy's bed, so we have to wait until we know she is asleep. Last weekend though both the 7 & 4 year old were screaming to sleep with Daddy.. it's a constant battle with getting them to sleep in their own room. But anyway, back to sex. =) My man likes to wake up in the middle of the night to do the deed too, so it's sometimes 2 a day... once before bed then in the middle of the night and we ALWAYS get our quickies in the morning.. unless the kids are over, then we have to wait. My favorite are the quickies, nothing like waking up beside a sexy man with a warm body!!!
laura didn't answer her own question cause as soon as i posted it yesterday, i had to go find the face mask to my little girls breathing treatment machine. turns out you now have to have a doc call it in cause people are using it to sniff paint, so my 2 year old was having issues with her asthma, and i was trying to get a doc to call it in....... you know those little green masks they put on your to give you oxygen in the hospital? that is nuts. i had the meds for it, and the machine, i just needed the 2.00 green mask.
anyways, it depends on john's work schedule because he works 12 hour shifts on a rotating basis, and it also depends on when our daughters finally get to bed.......
some weeks we do it a few times, and then sometimes we don't.
i think many answers depend on peoples ages, and how long they have been married, and also the age of your children.
but on average i would say a couple of times a week.
very intresting to hear all your answers!
During the day when DH and I call / IM each other, we talk sex and we will definetely BD....but when we get home we get so busy with kids, feeding them, giving them a bath..... as soon as they are asleep which takes all our energy I fall asleep right away. So i would say once a week at the most!
Before we had kids, it was an average of 2-3 times a week, especially WEs
He leaves the house around 6:30AM and doesn't get home usually until after or right at 7PM except on Wednesday when we have two of his daughters. Right now it is just the two of us in the house full time... but that will change in 4 months. =)
We will HOPEFULLY find out on the 28th @ 1PM. =) We would love to add a boy to the group (I think my man suffers from estrogen poisoning sometimes) but a sweet little curl with a head full of beautiful brown curly hair (like mine) and big beautiful blue eyes (like his) will be welcomed with big strong open arms too! =)
Well I did up until yesterday when I saw Quinns Mom post and my BF saw your baby's name .... he wants a unique classic name so we may go with Ava Quinn, but I also like Annelise. He had originally picked out Regan Cybil but he is still tossed up. We have definitly picked out the boys name though it will be Robert Cash... he at first insisited on "Ronnie Cash" and I pitched a B i t ch. =)
Well, I really want the Daddy to be able to name our baby. He has not been pushy about it at all.. if I have a name ... like Quinn that I suggest he considers it and we talk about it. He is honored to have the job. =)
Once a week, but I could do it more if the hubby was willing. I have to say that I had a hysterectomy in July and this has totally changed our sex life. I struggled prior to the surgery because sex was always painful, however now I have no pain and am also taking an hrt that really increases your sex drive so I could have it everyday it he would let me.
I rarely venture over to this forum these days but had to comment on this one. Seems like we are pretty normal. Four daughters...full time jobs, both in school and a 5 month old baby who has lots of doctors appts lately. I'm still getting up at night a few times to feed him. We are both exhausted! We average about every 3 days. It's a struggle to even do that but we both know it's important. He initiates because I have NO drive while breastfeeding...but I put out because I know he needs it. Honestly, I would be happy with once a month...it wouldn't bother me one bit.
3-4 times a week, and then weekends a couple of times a day:) Sometimes more, sometimes less. Sometimes we travel over to a parent's house and no booty happens:( Of course there are those days where honestly all I want him to do is rub my feet because I am so tired. It just depends.. One thing I notice - men are never too tired for sex!
Really? My fiance can be exhausted, starving, or sick as a dog and he still wants it. lol AND over the past few weeks we started getting up at 5am to work out at our gym before going to work. I am wiped out at the end of the day, and he is ready for some booty!
we have sex at least 4 to 5 times a week some of them have to be quickies before the kids get up its mostly the morning we have sex my partner is working through the nights so we have to have it in the morning before had my daughter it was aleast 4 times a day now i feel we dont have it alot i know it sounds alot but i doesnt feel it lol
LOL...thanks for that ray of hope :)) I was the same way with DD. Had no desire while I was pregnant or breastfeeding her. When I was done b/feeding her, all of a sudden I was in the mood almost every day.
My hubby is a sex machine he works two jobs gets up at 4 am gets off at 2pm then goes to his second job its like his hungry and you have to eat!!! Some times i have to pretend im asleep my sex drive is down in the drains sigh..
I have sex with my me whenever I can. we have 3 children now and it's really hard to get around to it. I would say around the average of once a week. I go to school and work my man work second shift so that's what it's like having 3 children and trying to have sex.
Omg before I got pragnet it was like 3-6 times a day because he was home most of the time now that I am pragnet 2-3 times a day because my sex drive went down but he never gets tired and wants more eventhough the doc said no more sex to us when I was 4 months because I had really bad cramping and bleeding well we just didn't do it violently and decreased on the amount and tomorrow I am 37 weeks Ahhh almost there I just want to do it like we use to before ..
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