since i was young, ive had a guy following me around. my 1st experiance with him was when i was 5 years old at my old lake property. the year prior My favourite ball disappeared and when we went back the next year, i was playing out side (drawing stuff in the sand with a stick) and out of no where my ball rolled up infront of me. when i looked up there was a guy standing infront of me, he was dressed in black pants and a white blouse right out of the victorian age. i stood up to go say thank you so i walked up to him and i said just that.. he started to cry, went down on one knee and said i found you my love... and then did the whole vanishing thing. ever since, every once and awhile ill see him and i can almost always feel him... weirdest part, a few years ago, i dated a guy who looked just like him, it was love at first site and i couldn't explain why. this guy, mind you was a very bad guy. but i still see the victorain man (now im around his age). my question is, what can i do to talk to him again? id like to find out what he wants and who he thinks i am. could i be a reincarnation of his lost love? or am i just over thinking this?? HELP