Depending on your symptoms VDD can cause some issues with marriage. My husband had to realize that I just didn't have the stamina to do the things I used to be able to do. I also had issues of frustration because I was upset with the lack of control I felt with my symptoms.
My husband has been an anchor over the last 4 years or so, but that is his temperment. If you are having problems in your marriage, I would strongly suggest you seek counseling and for the both of you to be very open and honest with each other.
I am anemic too, due to heavy mens, and now VDD, I feel like crap! I just started with Vit D3 drops, 9 drops every day, magnesium and iron...I feel worst than ever, any advice?