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physical weekness by exes masterbation

my age is now 23. i have done masterbation since 9th class.day by day my health becomes week by doing this.
if i try to avoid it i can't avoid it.my eyes go to deep.my musculs in faces also go insides.my bones in faces grows so how can i control my exes sex fall.every time i have interest for sex.how can i get my body fit.i have less energy .i can run at a high speed.i become very emotional now.in a day i do this at least 2 times or more than that.there is lots of atraction towords sex than other friends. they called me as sex psycho.what can i do please tell me i 'll great full to you.can i take ayrved,yoga,or elopathic medicin?? please say me what amount & and time period of taking medicin.by doing masterbating my digestion system also not working properly.i want to less atraction towords sex & reduce sex fall exes amount.  


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I agree with the last comment, you can look at this from a purly secular standard or a spiritual standard, but the result is the same and doctors are wrong. the conscience is a very powerful inbuilt program, inbuilt as in, it is not something that is simply developed, but is in all people and mastered over time with practice, it can be trained, and it can be lost, but it comes standard with every human. Somehow when we masterbate in an unhealthy way, and I mean just crazy out of control, our conscience fights hard against us, it hurts, we are also draining our bodies of valuable energy, raw materials, causing an unhealthy chemical inbalance. The pull or addiction of porn is extremely powerful, it is super hard to break, because it is taking advantage of our in-built desire for sex, lust, beautiful women, pleasure, these things are supposed the be enjoyed by all, but in balance, in moderation and not against our concience, but for it. It is a horrible thing to be caught in this depraved web, and it loops out of control. But know this, if you focus on your conscience, and make a dedication to heal it, to work with it, to not fight against it, to learn to hate what is bad and love what is good, and to despise those horrible empty feelings you get, and you know exactly what I mean, then you can and will win. Pray yes, I agree, God is alive despite what many fools believe and he will help those who earnesly persist in prayer. He has a plan to fix the world up and mankind with it, and all these problems will be done away with, for now we take advantage of prayer. Dont fret brother, you can and will win this one. Remember when you get those feelings in your body that you want release and you want to look at porn. Drop and do as many pushups as you possibly can. Pumble your body and make it produce the chemicals you need, chemicals that will make your body and your conscience feel good. Chemicals powerful enough to outway those released after you masterbate. Train your body to resist and focus on your hatred of feeling down and guilty. Guilt has a purpose but its not a feature of the mind designed to be overused. IT is there to correct but not to convict us over and over again. You cannot work against it, work with it, and despise pornography and masterbation becuase its hurting you inside and your body and preventing you from many joys. If you fall, thats ok, everybody does, and you may fall many years, but do not givein and you will certainly succeed. Develop your hatred of bad, meditate of your love of good( that is your healthy conscience ) the healthy you and focus on who you really are, not your behaviour. your behaviour is not you, do not let you be tricked into thinking it is. Remember, pushups (intense with pain as much as you can handle and you will become addicted to endorphins and you will condition your brain and body so that when you crave a good feeling, you will act out of habit for good, because at the moment when you crave a good feeling, you act out of habit, but the end result is not what you seek. Seek to control your body and this will control your thoughts also, you can break this unhealthy habit by providing something of much more superior pleasure.

Ignore Doctors who say it is healthy, it may be for them but it is not for you, and God knows this too, so listen to him and what he gave you. You will certainly succeed.
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Masturbation is not good for you. I experience drainage of the brain especially idiotism and loss of memory, lagging of the eye and I notice my eye use to wide now it is small in opeing with. You right it affect digestion and not some medical jargon that doctor telling you about. I think the body is creting a new human being and it does care much about you in this process, all the body wants to do is drain all available nutrients to make this baby- testosterone, minerals,brain matter, life force, etc. so unless these are restored quickly your body is slowing dying from abuse and the body is intelliegent that it knows you have not couples with a woman to have this ejaculation so it makes you pay a high price. There are spiritual laws we brake here and that the conscience part of you telling you that something is morally wrong.Masturbation is male abortion. no amount of taking walk or taking fresh air can help. you were not satisfied in the correct way of how God design the male and female body to come together to be satisfied, and that part of your subscioncious brain telling you to do it again or find a woman until you get the God wired formula right. Your mental sexual appetite is corrupted and debase. The unseen God is talking to your conscience, yes reading the bible is good but have you ever tried fasting and praying to brake this perverted mental sexual appetite? Dont follow doctors advise about it is healthy for you, worse woes than that I have highlighted is happening to you and millions of boys and man who are addicted with this unatural facination.

If you want to know god why not amazon books by Ellen G. White like I did.
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Hi Panky,
     As I already told you, most likely, your hormone level will be within limits and the high sex drive you are feeling is just due to your age factor.But in case it is outside limits, doctors will be able to find the source of the problem and correct it.
Solace
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sir
thaks for reply .you said that there is over production of  sex hormons in the body(pituitary or testes).can i reduce the over production by consulting an endocrinology.  
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Sorry Panky, I forgot to add one more point - You should also expend your energy in other creative activities such as hobbies, social activities, gym workout etc., so that you do not fall into the wormhole of wasteful self enjoyment too often.
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Hi,
First of all,I would say you are lucky to have high sex drive and do not try to suppress it. However, in some cases, it may be due to over production of sex hormones in the body (Pituitary or testes) and therefore, it is a good idea for you to get your hormones levels assessed by an endocrinologist, most likely you will have no problem.

Next,you have mentioned you have digestion problem. It may be due to intestinal parasites, amebiasis, or any other problem with the GI tract. You should consult a doctor for this and get proper treatment.

Thirdly, you should take protein and micronutrient rich food. Your main problem seems to be with protein deficiency/absorption. Give special attention to zinc intake and its absorption.If you have digestive problems, zinc and protein absorption will be affected. Read  from the following reference link, the Recommended Daily Intake for various nutrients.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reference_Daily_Intake

Fourthly, if you openly talk with your friends,you will find you are atypical of your age group and nothing wrong with you. However, if you feel that you are crossing your limits, you are your master, now that you are 23 years old, your mind should have a control over your emotions, and you will be able to adjust your desires to your capacity.

Good luck,
Solace    



  
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