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If you aren't comfortable with what you are being told by your doctor, it is wise to seek out a second opinion. Especially since you are having problems.
If possible, be seen by a urogynecologist. Your doctor should not object to this, if he is confident in his diagnosis.
I too was terrified of ripping again and having the same complications all over with two kids to care for this time... luckily I had better care in our small new town. It took all of 7 pushes to get my #2 out (over a pound larger than #1 as well) My Dr held my perenium for me during pushing and told me the 2nd degree tearTears again gel drops Tears naturale Tears plus i got this time was because the scarred tissue had so little elasticity it gave way during my intense pushing. but this time it only took two weeks to feel normal down there again. I'm still being cautious (babyBabies and heat rashes Baby feeding patterns is 19 days old today) but am confident that I'm trhough the worst of it.
If possible, be seen by a urogynecologist. Your doctor should not object to this, if he is confident in his diagnosis.
I couldn't find any research for you, but you can try Googling perineal repair, complications of perineal repair, breakdown of episiotomy (that's similar to your tear repair), etc.
Just to give you a little bit of hope. :0)
I would never have a c-section to prevent tearing. There is pain with recovery with that too I think.
I too was terrified of ripping again and having the same complications all over with two kids to care for this time... luckily I had better care in our small new town. It took all of 7 pushes to get my #2 out (over a pound larger than #1 as well) My Dr held my perenium for me during pushing and told me the 2nd degree tear i got this time was because the scarred tissue had so little elasticity it gave way during my intense pushing. but this time it only took two weeks to feel normal down there again. I'm still being cautious (baby is 19 days old today) but am confident that I'm trhough the worst of it.
So, in direct response to your question. I would recommend NOT getting a c-section, although you might be able to request one. That is an even more intensive healing for your body, and guarantees you'll be outta comission for a while. Do your kegels and the other recommended excersizes, get warm cloth compresses during final stage of labour, take docuset/stool softeners immediately after delivery if you required stitches, and have your DR hold your perenium together while you're pushing... with any luck this will help you avoid both a c-section and the nightmare of healing a re-ripped perenium. But I am also no doctor myself and they usually know you better down there. Best of luck with the next one :oP