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I am axious to try again. I was sadDepression at firstFirst-progesterone vgs 200 First-progesterone vgs 400; but my doctor has assured me that miscarriages at 5 weeks are very commonCommon cold. Often women do no even know they are pregnant that early, and miscarry naturally. He consoled me by pointing out that at least now we know are fertile and everything is working as it should be (theoretically). He also said that you are actually more fertile after a miscarriage; so I feel the next few months are our best chances for being successful. Now, if I do get pregnant again... I will be a little more guarded and know not to get my hopes up right away.
Thanks for the info about you ovulating in 14 days. I thought I was seeing what I wanted to on the OPKs or that they were just wrong; I did not even think it was possible to ovulate that soon after m/c.
I had a miscarriage 8-19 and I think I'm pregnant again so anythings possible. I know women who were m/c one month and pregnant the next and others who have gone for over a year and still aren't pregnant. Our bodies are so different that I guess the only answer is what your doc and/or OPK's tell you. I'm glad you're trying and I hope that you get exactly what you want! Trying is the best part!
I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and a d&c approx. five weeks ago. Both my husband and I feel that we are ready to begin trying again, however I haven't had my firstFirst-progesterone vgs 200 First-progesterone vgs 400 period after yet. I hope to get pregnant soon and I wish all of you the best of luck too.
I am in the same boat. I miscarried a week and a half ago at 5 weeks (no D&C). It was like a regular period and my levels are at zero. I should ovulate soon I think. They didnt tell you guys to wait a month or two? I really want to try again immediately, but am scared to because if something happens then I might tell myself that I should have listened to the midwife. Why is there so much inconsistency in what people are told. Do you think there is increased risk to try again immediately? I change my mind every other day about this. My husband is as confused as i am. -TINA
There may be other factorsFactor ix complex the doctor is concerned about. Usually, but not always, the majorMajor tears Major-con concern is with emotional well being. I had to ask myself: Could I handle losing another babyBabies and heat rashes Baby feeding patterns so soon? When I knew I would be able to handle it and knew that I wasn't just replacing the one I had just lost, I knew it was time.
How do you feel about trying again so soon?
Thanks for the info about you ovulating in 14 days. I thought I was seeing what I wanted to on the OPKs or that they were just wrong; I did not even think it was possible to ovulate that soon after m/c.
Thanks :)
Looks like everyone here is ovulating
according to the questions...Hormones a flying!!
Hope all ttc...that its your month!!
I didnt want it to happen again and wouldnt forgive myself if something happened.
But there are women who get pregnat right away and all is fine
Its your choice,
I wish all of you good luck
There may be other factors the doctor is concerned about. Usually, but not always, the major concern is with emotional well being. I had to ask myself: Could I handle losing another baby so soon? When I knew I would be able to handle it and knew that I wasn't just replacing the one I had just lost, I knew it was time.
Take some time, make sure you and dh are ready and double check with your doctor to find out their reason for wanting you to wait. Is there an actual physical concern he has?
Good luck!
Andrea
I am new to this forum. I had a D&C on September 14th, the day before my birthday. I was 7 1/2 weeks pregnant with a blighted ovum. There was a gestational sac, yolk sac, but no obvious fetal growth. I have been telling myself that it is just a chromosome abnormality and not to blame myself. My husband and I used an OPK, charted bbt, and cm. The miscarriage was only diagnosed with vaginal ultrasound as I NEVER had any bleeding or pain.
It has been roughly 3 weeks since my D&C and I bled for 2 weeks afterwards (thought it would never stop). My doctor told me that she thought my period was amongst the post-surgical bleeding that lasted 2 weeks but it wasn't as heavy as my normal periods. I am fairly regular and the after D&C period arrived right on time then. I started another OPK and detected my LH surge at exactly the time we ovulated and conceived in August!!!-- I should have ovulated yesterday then. My husband and I decided not to wait- so we tried again only 3 weeks after D&C. I could use some prayers!
Does anyone have any advice for me? I feel so alone- I hope to hear some of your comments and suggestions-- I want this baby so badly and greatly honor the life we have created (to honor our lost baby we named her Annabelle). Do you think it is safe to conceive so quickly after miscarriage?? Have any of you heard that there is an increased fertility rate after miscarriage?? I am not sure who to believe- though I really do feel that it is alright to try again if your body is ready- I don't think a D&C will affect any future pregnancies and I am emotionally ready to try again.
Any comments would be greatly appreciated- good luck to you all-I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Thanks
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Just wanted to tell you my history. I had a miscarriage in Feb.2001 (D&C)and another May 2001 (natural miscarriage but said it was to soon to be pregnant again) and then delivered a healthy baby girl June 2003. The doctor told me that you should never get pregnant before 3-6 months after a miscarrage. I had another miscarriage 9-29. With this pregnancy I had a different doctor and this doctor told me the same( that I shouldn't try to get pregnant until about my 4th ovulation and said 6 months would be a greater chance of not miscarring again) Just thought you may want to know what I was told. If you would like to you can email me at amy@big-j.com.
Hope everything works out for you. Just remember everything works out the way it is supposed to.
Amy