Need advice...Please help...

[sweetsimplicity]

This may sound foolish and I dont even know if I am posting in the right forum, but I am needing some advice. I had my menstrual in September but for the life of me I cant pinpoint the date. I do know that it was towards the end but I am not too sure. I've had sex from 10//08-10/15 with my bf (who is dying for me to have a baby). I have began experiencing cramping like AF was on her way and a few times I have literally ran to the bathroom thinking she was starting only to see this milky white discharge. Now my breasts are beginning to have a burning sensation and they are sore closer to the chest and armpit area if i press on them. I am also beginning to feel hot as well and my gums are bleeding whenever I brush my teeth...WTF?

Thing is although we had sex pretty much everyday from 10/8-10/15 and we are still going like little jackrabbits. I took it upon myself to do 4 pregnancy tests on the 18th, 21st, 24th and 25th and all were negative. Do you think I tested too early being that we just started having sex this month? We are still humping like jackrabbits () although we are faced with this situation. If anyone can give me the best time to test to really make sure that I am negative, I would really appreciate it! Does anyone think I tested too early?


This discussion is related to Am I pregnant?.

[rachelista]

Hey all,
I've been crazy scared as well...I know I should take a preg test but even THAT is scaring me.

Last time I had sex was Sept 4th and morning of Sept 5th and he almost came in me. I think we caught it in time but I think we also pushed some sperm back inside me. Anyway, this was one week and one day from the START of my LAST period. I ended up having my period at the expected time later that month, but the PMS was exceptionally bad. I had breast/nipple soreness 2 weeks before I started the period! I rarely have breast tenderness, and this time it was intense for several days. Nevertheless,I still had a period so I thought I was ok.

Well, this month I started my period One whole week Early, and It was very light compared to usual. When my period was Supposed to start, I had only a little bit of bleeding. So, I am confused now. Mostly I am confused because I am on Orthotricyclen (Trisprintec) BC and have been for almost 2 years now, and I have never had irregular bleeding since being on BC. Why now? Why do I feel more bloated lately as well?

ANY HELP would be so very comforting.
@ SweetSimplicity: keep me posted on what's going on, I really need some insight. Thanks so much-- Rachel

[SMASHnSMARIN]

My last period was also at the end of September and I'm not sure of the exact date although I know it was after the 24th. I had fatigue menstrual like cramping and very sore breasts in the armpit area, so decided to test just to see on October 24th, it was positive. I went to doctor on the 28th and it was again positive.  Keep testing, good luck!

[sweetsimplicity]

I will! Subscribe if you can that you will know!

[taylor8710]

I know this will be a stressful week but make sure with your next test use you FMU. That will give you the most accurate test result! Again good luck and keep me posted!

[sweetsimplicity]

Thank you for replying. At first I didnt care whether I was or wasnt but with each passing day, its hard not to stress! I am trying my darnest to hold out for another week.I will admit that when I was testing (with the except of one test that I know it was too early to take), I didnt use FMU and I had just had something to drink prior to taking the tests!

[taylor8710]

Im going to say it is still to early to tell. IF you got pregnant on the 8th, it hasnt even been a full 3 weeks. It takes awhile for you hormone levels to get high enough to read on a home test. You really dont know if you have missed you period yet. I would give it another week or 2 to see if you have missed your cycle. Then take another test but make sure you do it with first morning urine! Good Luck!