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please talk to her find out what she enjoys now and work on that ,but be understanding that she is not going to be enjoying much at the moment .
she will be tired and emotional and not be interested for a while but give her a few months then work on improvements in the bedroom .just be there for her untill she is ready .
wishing you luck with baby x x
Like the previous poster stated, Volume does not increase pleasure. I actually experience stronger orgasms on my second or third orgasm/ejaculation when I'm near dry.
I don't know the answer to your question, though.
L-arginine (4,000mg/day) -- works to increase nitric oxide which helps with erection and sensitivity; also increases semen volume and quality.
L-lysine (1,000mg/day) -- increases semen quality and consistency.
Saw palmetto (standardized extract) -- I recommend a product called Prosta-Metto, sold by Puritan's Pride (www.puritanspride.com). This product contains the saw palmetto, pygeum, uva-ursi, and pumpkin seed oil extract, all of which work to condition and keep the prostrate healthy. If you get this product, take 4-6 twice a day with meals.
Lecithin (1 capsule/day) -- increase semen quality and consistency.
Maca -- take lots of this, as it helps increase semen volume (clinically proven to improve semen quality -- see "maca" at wikipedia.com for references).
Yohimbe -- I would recommend another Puritan's Pride product (mostly because they're the least expensive) called Viper. This product contains the yohimbe extract along with kola nut, oat straw (avena sativa), nettles, korean ginseng, horney goat weed, catuaba, muira puama, damiana, and also saw palmetto. All of these work to heighten sensitivity and pleasure during sex (which works for higher semen volumes, right?).
Amino acids -- get yourself a whey protein shake mix and drink one to two of them a day. This will help with volume. Remember, your body will use its resources for the most important things first, reproduction being towards the bottom of the list as "important." Whey protein will provide you will all the necessary amino acids, some of which work to create nitric oxide and other substances. You will notice healthier orgasms and probably increased volume.
Water -- you've already got this one down. Keep it up.
Time -- of course, the longer you go between ejaculations, the higher your volume will be! Give it at least two to three days in between, along with the above supplements, and you'll be surprised.
Foreplay -- take your time before rushing in! If you increase your foreplay by, say, 10-15 minutes, your body will have more time to produce semen in your seminal ducts. Your prostrate will make more semen in 20 minutes during foreplay than in a whole day. Just take your time and relish the foreplay.
I hope this helps. Despite what some have said here, increased semen volume does heighten the experience for the man, and likely for the woman. About the "mess" -- well, if you don't want a mess, don't have sex! As for the pleasure, yes, increased volume does increase the pleasure -- not necessarily as far a more intense orgasm, but as a sense of satisfaction. Most men feel a little discouraged if they know they only dribbled. Satisfaction is the name of the game here when it comes to volume.
Don
Without a reliable study... people most likely are getting scam-ed.
In summary, post a link and hold back on the hand waving please.
From the above link, the opinion of an informed doctor:
Is it possible to increase the amount of semen that is ejaculated? Not ejaculating for several days will increase the volume of sperm and the other fluids. Most men have noticed that if they ejaculate several times in a day, the second and third ejaculations will have less volume. Some people think that prolonging foreplay before ejaculating increases semen volume by increasing the blood supply and fluid production of the prostate gland. Other than these two factors, there is probably little that a man can do to increase semen volume. Variations in diet and exercise may modify the components of semen, and change its taste, but do little to change the volume. Various herbal preparations are available which claim to increase volume, but I know of no reputable research that has verified these claims. Based on my understanding of the sources and components of semen, I would be very dubious about the effectiveness of herbal supplements.
Supplements work for me. A healthy body can do what it's designed to do better. A pharmceutical grade supplement with added zinc e and the amino acids mentioned previously (and the saw palmetto for overall prostate health) oughta do the trick. Best of luck Dad. raisinhale
I can assure you from personal experience that it does. For some people at least, including me. And the reason is that the ejaculation lasts more time. More fluids means more time to get them out, so pleasure for more long time, even if this is a few seconds. Sometimes it also means more intense pleasure. But it can create a feeling of unusual exhaust just after you finish and of unusual excitement some minutes after that.
This is the physical aspect. And then there is the mental one, especially if you have a girl that enjoys it.
Morgannon