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Chris*
God Bless
Kristin
Honestly everyone. I feel that a clear, easy to read and complete Time Line is one of the best tools you can possibly have if you are searching for a diagnosis. You will be surprised at how, after doing a timeline, you feel in control of your information and so much more confident when you go in to see the doc. I recommend that when you arrive for your visit you give it to the front desk and ask that they attach it to your chart and let the coc know it's there. These guys are busy and they may or may not read it before they come in. They may glance at it as they ask you questions. Even if they show no interest (not a great sign, but possible) YOU will have the clarity to answer questions better and you can always refer to it.
When I first developed vertigo I wrote up one that was more than 20 pages long!!! I sent it to a world-famous vertigo specialist (now my Dr.) He read it, made two of my three diagnoses from it and worked me urgently into his schedule.
As you bring up new symptoms, be descriptive about them. Paint a short picture of what impact that symptom has had on your life. If you just say "Weakness" there is nothing for the doctor to picture. But, "My right hip suddenly became weak. I used to climb stairs without a problem, but now I can't lift my right leg enough to completely clear a normal step. I tripped on stairs several times." That is an image that clearly reveals the problem. Tell the doctor what things you can no longer do.
When Wanna ends her paragraphs with ...." it's because there was more to her paragraph, but she didn't want to take up the space on the post.
Don't be afraid to use formatting in the Timeline. For example you can put Month/Year in bold and put bullets before the symptoms. Or use a couple colors to separate symptoms from Dr. visits.
If you complain of fatigue, explain how this fatigue is different than other times when you have been tired.
Wanna is right. Introduce the person you were before all this started and mention what you have lost.
I also think that it is okay to appeal to the new Neuro's ego, by commenting that previous doctors have disregared things, been dismissive or rude. Normal people want to be "better than the last guy."
Finally, as Wanna, explained, tells them what you need. eg. "I am looking for a doctor that will listen to me, look at the data, and be able to put things together into a coherent theory and work up."
Wanna - This was wonderful, Thank you so much!! You Rock! (Kristin, I borrowed some !!!!"s Hope you don't mind)
Quix
I'm still going to fix one up. I think that even though I'm diagnosed it will still be helpful. We do forget alot of things until we set down and think about it and put it on paper.
Thanks
Carol
And Quix, thanks again!! You are an awesome human being.
While I was formatting my time line, I played with font color, size, italics vs. bold...etc. All the years are one color, dates another. Symptoms are bulleted and bold. I tried highlighting symptoms but it looked like I was trying too hard to get the point across…I know that sounds odd, but I wanted to be taken seriously. I am also an artist, so I wanted the presentation to look appealing to the eye and invited the reader to KEEP READING.
If I could read though the time line without getting lost in my fog, I knew the doctor could do it!
Start slowly and maybe it will come easier. I panicked at first and had to contact the Den Mother for help.
Wanna (Donna)
Take Care,
Kristin
Here's the deal, my husband and I both think that my symptoms started way before I actually knew anything was wrong with me. We used to love to fish and we walked the creek for a couple of miles and then back up. It was a standing joke with my children to guess how many times mom would fall on the fishing trip. We all laughed about it. That was several years before I knew there was a problem.
I started seeing a neurologist in August of 2004, but for atleast 10 years before that I can look back and see all kinds of things. Especially the clumsiness. I also experienced alot of fatigue. Before all of that I was very athletic and could go all day and night.
Is it possible I could have had MS for all those years without knowing or did I just get really clumsy as I grew older?
Anyway, How would I start my time-line? Would I start from when I first saw the neurologist or back when I feel like I first had symptoms?
Thanks for listening,
Carol
I also suspect those early times of fatigue and clumsiness were your beginning - how interesting. I would start with the statement, "I don't really know when my symptoms began. As my husband and I talked about it we remembered that about 10 years ago I began having long periods of unexplainable fatigue. Before that I was very athletic and on-the-go, even into the night. Then XXX happened (explain whether it was ongoing fatigue or months of fatigue or a little of both - fatigue with worse fatigue) I also became inexplicably clumsy. My family had a standing joke of "How many times Mom fell down on a hike."
I never thought much then about the fatig