curious about bisexuality

[chellybeans]

i have always lived a straight life, always been very much hetrosexual and am even trying to conceive with my boyfriend after a missed miscarriage, however i am finding myself bi-curious. is this just a normal stage or something i need to look deeper into?

[kenziesmom]

What exactly do you mean by bicurious?  Are you feeling aroused by looking at porn, or are you aroused when your best friend comes over to hang out on the couch?  Big difference.

[pertykitty]

im worried about the "ttc with boyfriend but curious about bisexuality" part. i think its perfectly normal, but maybe you arent ready to be a mother yet. why have a child now? sure people (and lots of them) here have children with boyfriends, significant others,ect. but why not wait, explore your feelings, then when you are done experimenting see if marriage is in your future, and then discuss the children situation. just my opinion.

[sparkeler]

I think it's ok to be bi curious.  I've never had that desire but I know plenty of women of have & their husbands/boyfriends love it.  They actually want to join.  Why don't you share your feelings with your husband?  That may be the most exciting news he's heard all his life.  Maybe you should hold off on having a baby, but then again, your baby has nothing to do with what goes on in the bedroom.  I mean, do you still love your husband & want to be married?  Are you still attracted to him?  I don't think someone can just become a lesbian.  So if you answered yes to all my questions, then ask him if you can experiment with another woman, if it's something you truely want to try.  Good luck!

[chellybeans]

well we have decided that we want to be parents.mutually and after much consideration was given. i am 28 so i am not a teenager rushing into things. i am curious, not by looking at porn, but simply the sensuality of women, my boyfriend is fully aware and supportive. i don't want to expirement, i just wonder about the allure. um, in simple terms, i am not interested in sleeping with women and the thought of life without heterosexual sex is saddening to me personally. i have just found myself drawn to women.i am simply curious.and for the record, he has no interest in bringing another woman home. lol. neither do i honestly.i am more interested in our future together. i just wonder if this is normal stuff most woman experience(this wondering what the big deal is.lol)

[pertykitty]

i think at one time or another most women have fantasized about another woman. i have, but i dont have any interest in fulfilling this. it really is nobodys business if you do or not. you are completly normal. you both sound like healthy mature individuals-if you so choose to explore-just remember that sometimes there can be emotional issues after. jealousy and such. happy new year!

[chellybeans]

thanks! happy new years to you. i don't know why i worry so, i just want to make sure i am not gonna go crazy when the pregnancy hormones kick in or we decide to wed. lol.



happy holidays all!! =)

[oceans3]

i KNEW you wanted me!

[pertykitty]

lol. ive missed you where have you been? now the fun can begin.

[oceans3]

whats lucy's saying? "its all fun and game until someone gets hurt...then its fri**** hilarious!" i love that!

oh you know, the usual holidays and all the STRESS and obligations, running around and so on and so on. now that its all said and done, i should be around more often. you should c'mon back ya know. we'll guide ya through.



sorry origional poster for hijacking your post! just miss my gal perykitty...lol!

[mami2karina]

I completely understand what you're going through.  I'm almost 21 and I have a little girl who will be 3 in March.  I am bi curious as well.  I have always wanted to be with a woman, mostly because they are female and we know what we like, etc.  I think it's normal.  But I'm worried how I may feel after I act on it.  But yeah, I think it's definitely normal.