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Is there a chance I can become Pregnant??
Answered by
Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D. - Sexuality, family, Sexual Identity
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Is there a chance I can become Pregnant??

by msniki412, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
ok so me and my guy were having sex last night...we started out using a condom and going through my vagina first...so we were doing it for awhile and then he wanted to feel how it would be without a condom, so he takes it off and we start like making out and his penis is rubbing all over my vagina, and then we continued to have sex without the usage of the condom...so were going at it and whatever, but i dont beleive he ejaculated in me, im about 80% sure, but he might have possibly have let some pre-*** out, but if he did wouldn't he have felt that??...after we were done there we switched to anal and that was were he ejaculated in me...when we were done i felt really wet down there and close to my vagina where it meets the rectum...and i felt like i guess maybe dripping down or something. ok so my question is...is there any possiblites of me becoming pregnant? i also feel alittle weird today, my stomach is hurting but i beleive that might be due to me having my period [and yes i had it when i had sex, it started on december 29th], does that make a pregnancy risk higher?? and also i kinda hurt down there too. wow, any help with this would be great, and if all ur gonna say is go to the doctor then please don't bother with a response then...THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., Feb 28, 2007 12:00AM


  It is unlikely that you could get pregant during your period- although it is not immpossible. When you have your pregnancy, the uterus is shedding the blood it stores in case there is a fertilized egg- by bleeding your uterus is making it unlikely that an egg could find a stable place in the uterus to grow and become a fetus.

  What is more worrisome is having sex without a condom, then having anal sex without a condom, and especially during your period.  Anal sex is a very easy way to get bacteria- or viruses into the blood stream if there is a cut on the penis or if the tissues of the anus are torn during thrusting. When you have your period , you have an obvious way for infections and viral material to go right up the cervix.  It is not safe sex and I hope you don't do it again.

   Could you get pregant from the pre-***? Maybe. It's possible although it is unlikely there would be enough sperm to impregnate you. Could the sperm drip from the anus into the vagina? Yes. Would it be unlikely to be enough to impregnate you? Yes, but again, not impossible.

    However your unprotected sex could really very easily have given you some kind of sexually transmitted infection and I would like you to go see a doctor ASAP to see if you are healthy or need some treatment. You need to wear a condom all the time- especially if you have anal sex. So please go make sure you are ok- and change the way you make love in the future.
Member Comments (24)

by jenniferolivebridge, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
if it was during your period, chances that you were ovulating are very low. if you want to safe guard 100%, get plan b.

by msniki412, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
yeah i had my period, but i wasn't bleeding that day...does that make a difference??? Thanks

by sparkeler, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
There is always a risk of pregnancy when you have unprotected sex.  You can ovulate during your period, but the chances of conception are relatively low.  Is it possible you concieved?  Yes.  Is it probable?  No.  You can always obtain Plan B just to be EXTRA safe, since you are in the 72 hour window.  Happy New Year!

by msniki412, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
so ok...if ur saying that i might have conceived, and is it probable u say no...does that mean i might have a problem later on like a miscarriage or something??

by jenniferolivebridge, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
you cannot predict problems or miscarriages. if you dont want to be pregnant, get plan B and then look into getting another form of birth control for the future.



by sparkeler, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
I'm not sure what your asking.  Just b/c you probably did not concive this time does not mean you will have any kind of fertility problems or problems carrying a baby in the future.  I agree with the above poster, please look in to some other form of birth control, in case you don't feel like using a condom again in the future.

by msniki412, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
ok so i get plan B right just in case...but if i did a pregnancy test like now would it be too soon to tell anything? im so sorry for all the questions and its just that i cant get plan B right now cuz im at work and im like freakin out and my stomach is hurting and i cant talk to anybody about this yet...

by JJety, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
Taking a hpt would definitely be waaaay too soon.  You'd have to wait until you are due for your next period.

by jenniferolivebridge, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
Relax! you can go to the pharmacy after work and get plan B. you have time...



it would take several weeks for a pregnancy test to show any type of result.

by msniki412, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
****...sorry for the foul lanuage...ok so plan b it is, cuz i cant wait for my next period even though my period came early for this month...ok wow guys...thanx so much for all who replyed..omg i forgot about this part i started bleeding on december 22nd i only bled for 3 days and then it stopped and then it picked up again on december 29th...does this change anything??? thanks people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by JJety, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
Was the bleeding normal both times?  If it was heavy red bleeding then it just sounds like your period is acting weird.  The fact that you had sex during this second bleeding makes pregnancy even less likely IMO.  



However, is there any way you could have been pregnant prior to this weird period??

by msniki412, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
umm...the bleeding was lite...matter of fact i spot bled on december 20th and stopped...and now my period is still very lite, lihter now after last night...and no i wasn't pregnant pior to all this as i havent had sex in a year..last night was the first for a while...and i dont know if this matters but my stomach is hurting and its not cramps because it doesn;t feel like cramps...its more uncortable then anything. thanks!!!

by msniki412, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
To: JJety
wait..whats IMO????

by JJety, Jan 02, 2007 12:00AM
Okay, so the lack of sex