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[noweapon77]

Hello ladies, I am a gentleman in need of some advice. I know all females bodies are different. My girlfriend and I have a great sex life. I notice she always orgasms when I am either on top of her, or she is on top of me. Is there a certain way to go about having her climax from the doggystyle position or does it just depend? Please I am open for all suggestions.

Thanks

[Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D.]

    The reason she is having orgasms in those positions  is because there is contact with the clitoris.  Doggie Style does not put pressure on the clitoris in the same way but you can reach around and stroke her clitoris with your fingers and that might do the trick.

[she'asks]

As a woman I too only orgasm when I am on top.  The reason for this is because of pressure and control.  When a woman is on top or on the bottom there is a certain rubbing and pressure on the pubic bone and clitoris, this is what helps her orgasm.  Also when a woman is on top she has control over the motion and the pressure that feels right to her.  When you are doing it doggy style there is nothing to let her get hers.  You may want to try reaching around and using your fingers to rub her clitoris to get her off or experiment with anal pleasure (if she is in to that).  One way to get the best of both worlds is just to let her orgasm first and then finish with doggy style.  Hope that helps!

[NoNamesPlease]

I'd like to add my voice of experience here - you've heard from the other female respondents what is true for me, too. Clitoral contact is best made from the front. Rear entry doesn't provide the necessary pressure. You can try to reach around and manually stimulate her 'in front', or have her do it herself. But even with tantric practice and G-spot enlightenment, I never have been able to have a 'real' orgasm from the rear, no matter how good it feels (I'm 55, btw).

[hts]

My boyfriend and I have found that if you tilt at the right position in doggy style, it is possible to climax. I find that you can put yourself on the edge of the bed with your legs underneath you which puts you at a tilt for better G spot stimulation while he is behind me standing on the ground. Or if she leans forwards (sometimes I'm laying on the bed completely) and spreads more you are able to have a better position.