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penetration problems
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Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D. - Sexuality, family, Sexual Identity
This forum is for questions and support regarding relationship issues such as: Abstinence, Arousal Problems, Birth Control, Cohabitation, Commitment, Communication, Couples Counseling, Desire /Lack of Desire, Sexual Technique.

penetration problems

by mr.lucky66, Jul 12, 2007 12:00AM
I would like to know if it is common for a middle aged man to have problems penetrating. I never did before and after some time of inactivity I now have a loving girlfriend. We get each other very excited but only half the time am I able to penitrate her. Fortunately for her, she's able to climax without me inside her. I get hard but maybe not hard enough. any thoughts?

by Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., Jul 17, 2007 12:00AM
It is very common for middle aged men to have a softer erection that sometimes makes penetration difficult. If I were you I would go to a medical doctor and see if you are a good candidate for Levitra.Caelis or Viagra. They are all slightly different, but they all work --if you are not at any medical risk because of physical vulnerabilities or medicines you are presently taken in conjunction with illness. If you are healthy enough to take one, I think you would be very satisfied with the results. Some of these results can even happen on just taking half a pill - or low dosage. Do go see your doctor to see if one of these drugs is right for you.
Member Comments (4)

by Mightyburner75, Jul 13, 2007 12:00AM
To: lucky66
You probably need some type of ED pill like Cialis or viagra.  I had the same problem until I started using them.

by mr.lucky66, Jul 13, 2007 12:00AM
Burner, I thought of that but then after you start taking them I would imagine you get used to them and HAVE to take them every time. Now I can get inside her about half the time. Mighty burner? are we talking Charles Erland?

by Matt1978, Jul 19, 2007 12:00AM
I agree with the Doc.  Even half of a viagra makes me had as a rock and the  sex is great. It will make it more satisfying for you and your partner.  Talk to your physician and give it a try.  
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