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Studies show over and over that being uncircumsized can be problematic health wise for you but mostly for your partners, it can make you more prone to a variety of ptoblems.
http://www.norm-uk.org/foreskin_restoration_devices.html
http://www.penisdoctor.com/foreskin.html
http://www.healthcentral.com/drdean/408/60750.html
http://www.frontpagemag.com/Articles/ReadArticle.asp?ID=236
http://www.nospank.net/prescott.htm
http://www.psurg.com/fskin.html
http://www.cirp.org/library/restoration/goodwin1/
http://www.phudson.com/GENITAL/uncircumcision.html
http://www.surgeontothestars.com/pages/other_procedures/foreskin_restoration.shtml
To blame your parents for doing what millions of parents are advised to do when their child is born seems ridiculous to me. I mean, come on. Surgically trying to change it is likely to cause you more problems than it could possibly solve. I say get some counselling about it and find out why you would blame your parents for such a thing. It isn't like you can ask a newborn baby if they prefer to be circumcized or not!
Anxiousmomtobe: You should be anxious if you plan on circumcising your kids because you have a sick sexual fetish. I've never forgiven my mother for it and we have probably the best mother-son relationship ever otherwise. She said she knew she shouldn't have, but there was peer pressure. All of my female friends say either it doesn't matter or they find uncircumcised penises fun. I was born in 1982, so attitudes must have changed. My father once said that everyone he knew was circumcised. That's CERTAINLY not the case with me; it's not rare or weird anymore, for guys or girls.
Rita02: What do you mean I've never known it any other way? I have lots of uncircumcised friends. It looks better, more comfortable and none of them wish they were circumcised, whereas most of my circumcised friends would rather not be. Doesn't mean they admit this to their parents, but that's the truth.
Kalio1: I love how you try to make it my fault that my parents screwed up. Again, I was born in 1982, not the middle ages. Nearly half my peers weren't circumcised. My parents knew better and the doctors knew better. They simply made a horrible choice that wasn't theirs to make in the first place. Also, the problems of being uncircumcised are extremely rare (why is the AIDS rate in America 6 times that of Norway, where the procedure is almost never done?), while complications from the procedure are routine, including skin tags, infections, painful sexual intercourse, tearing during sex, and requiring some kind of lotion for masturbation. Your information is skewed by a few perverts who have a circumcision fetish and wish to share this with the world.
I have been restoring for 3 years, very irregularly, so I should be done already, but kids, family time and stress have gotten in the way.
Partial or full coverage takes months or years by tugging. It is a slow process. It also has some (manageable) risks.
I can tell you this. The physical pleasure and sensitivity one gets by having just a *little* more mobility to the skin on the penis is astounding. For me this took somewhere like a 3-4 weeks, tugging with T-tape. -That is how most folks get started, until they have enough skin to pull over a tugger. Note: I was not circ'ed too tightly and do have my frenelum. Your mileage may vary.
So initially you don't get much cosmetic change, but tactilely it is a whopping difference. (I have seen another fellow comment that this sea change took him 4 weeks.) * The glans becomes super-arousing and sensitive in a good way to touch and pressure and stretching. You gain a lot of control over your speed of approach to orgasm, and getting there is a LOT more fun.
-You now have a "knob" instead of a "switch", so to speak.
That initial gain takes only a month or two and uses T-tape which is fairly safe and effective. You could do that and be very very satisfied with the feeling gained. Cosmetics is another matter.
You could at that point also tape your foreskin shut over your glans during the day and night and gain a lot of the benefits of coverage -without growing 15 sq. inches of skin.
Here's the quote:*
"After four weeks of keeping my glans covered,
I had about the best sex ever in my whole life,
just about what you'd expect in the back seat of a red '75 Impala,
except it was in bed with someone I've lived with for 22 years."
- Rob Roberts
I agree with Roberts. Every mm of motion will then feel good, which is completely different from how it was when I started.
So consider T-tape tugging for a month or two. You might well get a lot for a little inconvenience and a few dollars. Surgery is kilodollars... and iffy.
Thanks for your post, too.
SDKSono