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Sexuality & Relationships (Expert Forum)
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This forum is for questions and support regarding relationship issues such as: Abstinence, Arousal Problems, Birth Control, Cohabitation, Commitment, Communication, Couples Counseling, Desire /Lack of Desire, Sexual Technique.
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by KATFISH1957, Sep 19, 2007 03:23PM
OUR FIRST YEAR TOGETHER MY HUSBAND WAS ALWAYS ON,NO MATTER WHAT OR WHERE HE WANTED SEX,ONE MONTH AFTER OUR FIRST ANNIVERSARY I HAD A STROKE AND EVER SINCE I HAVE NO DESIRE LEFT.MY HUSBAND TRAVELS FOR WORK AND I GAVE HIM PERMISSION TO HAVE SEX OUTSIDE OUR MARRIAGE AS LONG AS HE IS DISCREET AND SAVE AND DOESN'T GO FALLING IN LOVE.I ALSO GAVE HIM PERMISSION TO LEAVE AT ANYTIME HE FEELS THE NEED,HES BECOME MY CAREGIVER AND SAYS HES NOT GOING ANY WHERE AND WE MARRIED FOR BETTER OR WORSE.HE ASSURES ME HES NEVER ACTED ON MY INVITATION,NOW HE SAYS ITS JUST SEX NO BIG DEAL.I THINK MY QUESTION IS ARE WE HANDLING THIS ALL WRONG?
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by Lanoah, Sep 21, 2007 02:27PM
To: KATFISH1957
I THINK YOU SHOULD OF LOOKED FOR PROFESSIONAL HELP, SO YOU CAN FEEL THE DESIRE AGAIN. I DON'T THINK IT WAS A GOOD IDEA TO GIVE YOUR HUSBAND PERMISSION TO LOOK FOR ATTENTION ELSEWHERE. YOUR STILL ON TIME. LOOK FOR HELP. MAYBE YOUR DEPRESSED BECAUSE OF YOUR STROKE AND THAT'S WHAT'S MAKING YOU NOT FEEL ANY DESIRE. FIND HELP, THINKING OF YOURSELF AND THE BENEFIT IT WILL BRING TO YOUR LIFE, IF YOU FEEL BETTER.
