pain durning sex

[ouchies1986]

my boyfriend and i had sex one time where i wasnt completly wet, so it was dry, and ever sence then sex has been hurting alot.. likw for the first 2 mins it really hurts. it hurts right where the penis is enter in me, right on the right side. i dont know if this is any help but i recently started taking birth control... sesonal birthcontrol. do you think i should go to the dr. right away for this, or just let this heal on its own.

[AnnieBrooke]

If you think there is an actual tear, have you ob-gyn take a look.  It might require antibiotic treatment if there is any infection.  If you think it is just general dryness, you could try a lubricant.

[ouchies1986]

its not general dryness because sometime he will make me orgasime befor sex, and it still hurts for a little while and then after a couple of mins it does not hurt anymore, but lately its been hurting alot, for a long time too, five mins, till the whole time we are done.



thanks for your comment

[adflkhwyeldhdxd]

You probably got a small cut while you were having sex when you weren't lubricated enough, and you haven't given it enough time to fully heal so it reopens when you have sex again.  Give it more time and in the future if you don't feel that you're wet enough be sure to use lubricant.  KY is great!  If the problem persists, see a doctor.

[nikita2477]

I would def. see the doctor about this as it can persist into a chronic problem. Trust me, there are many reasons this could be and your doctor needs to rule out infection and a skin condition called lichenschlerosis (like-en-skler-osis) which causes skin to tear easily down there, but is treatable. Try putting a little A&D ointment on after it tears to help heal and protect it. You can get it in the diaper rash aisle of any drugstore. Hope this helps!

[ouchies1986]

WELL I FINALLY MADE AN APPOINTMENT BECAUSE IT HAS NOT GONE AWAY, I HADNT HAD SEX FOR A COUPLE DAYS NOW BUT NOW IT I STARTING TO HURT WHEN I GO PEE, SO ON MONDAY IM GOING IN.. KIND OF NERVOUS TOO :[



I HAD A PAP DONE ABOUT A MONTH AGO AND I GOT EVERYTHING BACK NORMAL AND I GOT CHECKED FOR STDS AND SUCH, BUT ITS ALWAYS IN THE BACK OF MY MIND.

[ladybug_77]

umm when every me and my boyfriend have sex it really hurts! it feels like he is hitting somwthing up there!!  but what?? is that even possible?? It makes wanting to have sex unlikely!!(for me anyways!!! what can i do or should do??? yes even try sex different ways and that don't even work!! help me!! someone