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Recurring problem.

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Recurring problem.

by Antoin, Oct 10, 2007 01:17PM

Tags: relationships, Sexual Problem, sexual problems, erection, name, sleep, years

About 2 years ago I lost my virginity to my now ex girlfriend but during the time period of us attempting to sleep together, whenever I would go to insert or even put on the condom, I would lose my erection...Once we had successfully has sex once, I never had the problem again. But now I am seeing a new girlfriend and today the same problem occurred both times we attempted, and then I was completely unable to achieve an erection again ( which also happened with the same girlfriend)

Originally I used arousal medication to solve the problem with the first girlfriend and then didn't have to use it ever again... am I forced to do the same with my new girlfriend? or is there a way of solving my problem? Thank you for your time.

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by rosalie68, Oct 14, 2007 09:52PM

its called performance anxiety.but im not sure what to do. sorry not much of a help but since there is a name for it maybe u can google it if someone doesnt answer.good luck

by whatisay, Oct 15, 2007 04:40PM

Let her put the condom on or hel p with inserting, if you do it it take syour mind off the pleasure

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