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Almost 8 won't try new things
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Renee Radenberg - Child Nutrition, nutrition
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Almost 8 won't try new things

by Beautymark, Oct 19, 2007 12:23PM
Hi

My son will be 8 years old this December. He is of normal height 4' 1'' and weight 60 lbs...not sure how, but he is.  He is a terrible eater. He won't try anything new or it's once in a blue moon. He stopped eating at around 14 months. He lives off of Chocolate milk and sometimes the strawberry milk. He will eat yogurt sometimes but only ones with not fruit bits. He sometimes eats bananas and sometimes baby carrots. And again sometimes apples if I peel and cut them into cubes.  He sometimes eats a veggie soup that I make. However I have to strain everything out except for the potatoes.  He's only source of protein would be peanuts. Sometimes Breton crackers. Notice I use "sometimes" a lot. That's because you just never know. One day he likes it the next he doesn't. He'll eat something for days on end then won't touch it for months.  He also likes to drink Yops. He will not touch any meats or breads. I have him on a daily vitamin.  The only thing that is consistent is the chocolate milk and oh ya dried pasta. Out of the box. He won't let me cook it.  I've gone as far as buying the whole wheat with omega 3 pastas. In hopes that, that's better then the white stuff.  He tends to throw up if he tries something new.  I'm sure he is scared he will throw up. But I'm also wondering if this is just a control issue. He will eat chips and vanilla ice cream by the truck loads if we'd let him. So I doubt it is a texture issue. We have spoken to is ped but he just says the old, cut the milk out and he will eat when he is hungry.  He goes for DAYS without eating if we do that.   We  don't make a big deal out of meal time. He doesn't like sitting with us at the table so we don't force him.  We do let him know we are proud of him when he does try something new even if he doesn't like it.  But we don't know what else to do. Any ideas?.

Thank you

by Renee Radenberg, Oct 20, 2007 07:50PM
To: Beautymark
Your son's height is normal for his age; however, his weight is slightly above his age group. You need to watch his weight. Increasing his physical activities will help with weight control. He sounds like he eats vegetarian but not in the most healthy way. Milk, and yogurt are sources of protein. I suggest you buy low-fat chocolate milk (taste the same as regular) and low fat yogurts. There are blended yogurts on the market that have the fruit in them, so you have the benefit of the fruit but no pieces. Using raw whole-wheat pasta and he accepts it is good. Does he like cheeses or other grains like cuscus or rice? Rice and beans are a good protein source. You stated he eats peanuts. Does that include peanut butter? How about a peanut butter sandwich with apples or bananas? That way he gets fruit and protein. Hope that helps, and thank you for your question.
Member Comments (4)

by star queen, Oct 19, 2007 05:53PM
To: Beautymark
I have to laugh as I read your note.  Just so funny that so many children go through this same diet.  Dried pasta. My husband just loves dry pasta to this day. You would be surprised to hear how many folks of all ages like dry pasta. Anyway, Your son is a control freak.  The behavior your son is exhibiting is a controlling one.  He controls you via his diet. He has you jumping through hoops for him and doing what he wants you to do. You worry, and pet him and pander to his wishes.  He loves the attention and keeping you in your place.  As soon as you "get used" to his eating, he changes his desires and what do you do?  You pander to the "new" choices, go right to the store and purchase whatever he now desires to eat.  When you stand your ground and put something in front of him that you want him to eat, he vomits to gross you out and you stop bugging him to try new things. He wins again.  He has further control over you by not eating with you.  You allow him to control the situation by not "forcing" him to eat at the table.  Again he wins and he is in control.  You further reinforce his control and poor behavior by praising him for controlling you.  He certainly has your number and knows what buttons to push.  You need to get the control back wit this boy or you will never have any control over him when he hit puberty full force.  You need to be the parent again. Meal time is at the table with the family and he eats what you eat or he doesn't eat.  He will fight it tooth and nail.  If he vomits, give him a bucket and mop and make him clean it up.  Remember he has been in control of this situation for a long time and won't give it up easily.  good luck, you will need it.

by Beautymark, Nov 17, 2007 08:52PM
To: Renee Radenberg, RD
Hi

I was a little off on the weight and height. It was dated and we were just at the Peds office yesterday. So his real stats are 126 cm and 58 lbs. He turns 8 Dec 23rd. And no he doesn't eat anything other then the pasta. He won't touch rice or cuscus. He won't eat any types of bread or peanut butter. Only peanuts, salted or out of the shell.  My ped recommendations were once again. To do nothing and he will out grow it. Do you agree?

by Renee Radenberg, Nov 19, 2007 08:14PM
To: Beautymark
Has he lost 2lbs from the first weight you gave me?
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