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Good luck to you, and I will check back with you.
Treatment of acoustic neuromas basically fall into three categories: conservative, radiotherapy, and surgery, which is the recommended definitive treatment. The probable reason why you have been getting so many contradictory advices on what to do stems from the fact that the doctors answering your query in the online forums cannot give you a definite answer because they have not examined you personally and looked at your diagnostic test results.
The decision to either watch and wait or undergo treatment would have to be made by you and your surgeon and would depend on several factors such as severity of your symptoms, as well as the pros and cons of each treatment alternative. I would advise you to sit down and talk with your surgeon about these treatment options for you to make an intelligent and informed decision about your condition.
Good luck.