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Wow! Lot's of new changes on forum. We're going to use donor eggs.
by YvetteY, Nov 13, 2007 12:14PM
Hi All
Lots of changes to website!!
Well I guess I'm back. I have no drama right now and I'm not pregnant. Had to take shot of methotrexate in October and they monitored my HCG level down to zero. So when I found out that I didn't have a viable pregnancy in late september I took a whole break from all of this. No thinking about TTC, nice to have that pressure lifted off.
DH doesn't want to do IVF in December. I'm pretty bummed about that. We both went to follow up appt to see RE and we didn't really like the stats for someone who's 41. THe RE thought that we should do IVF again despite that because I responded well to the injectibles, but DH says no. I guess he's a wuss about having to deal with another miscarriage of mine. Heck I dealt with 5 why shouldn't he? But I guess I'm tired of all the disappointment, so I reluctantly agree with him.
We've found a donor unk to us before, but now known and we're going forward with that. I am waiting to get my AF so they can waste more of time and do a "mock" cycle of some sort on me.
We've found the donor on our own through a surrogacy website. She's independent and out of state. I looked at a few agencies and it's ridiculous what they want to charge for a "broker fee". I don't think it's really fair. Seems like they take advantage of our desperation.
So that's what's going on with me. I hope you all are muddling through as well as can be!
Lots of changes to website!!
Well I guess I'm back. I have no drama right now and I'm not pregnant. Had to take shot of methotrexate in October and they monitored my HCG level down to zero. So when I found out that I didn't have a viable pregnancy in late september I took a whole break from all of this. No thinking about TTC, nice to have that pressure lifted off.
DH doesn't want to do IVF in December. I'm pretty bummed about that. We both went to follow up appt to see RE and we didn't really like the stats for someone who's 41. THe RE thought that we should do IVF again despite that because I responded well to the injectibles, but DH says no. I guess he's a wuss about having to deal with another miscarriage of mine. Heck I dealt with 5 why shouldn't he? But I guess I'm tired of all the disappointment, so I reluctantly agree with him.
We've found a donor unk to us before, but now known and we're going forward with that. I am waiting to get my AF so they can waste more of time and do a "mock" cycle of some sort on me.
We've found the donor on our own through a surrogacy website. She's independent and out of state. I looked at a few agencies and it's ridiculous what they want to charge for a "broker fee". I don't think it's really fair. Seems like they take advantage of our desperation.
So that's what's going on with me. I hope you all are muddling through as well as can be!
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((HUGS))
Brandi
welcome back!
There is alot going on with you!!
I think sometimes you need to give DH more time to think and digest what we can handle in a minute ...they are such boys ;)Keep us posted on what are the next steps.
((HUGS))
My results were negatives and I am thinking to go for donor eggs.
And I don't know how that works. Would help me explaining the process
Thanks