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My problem is that I've been told that seroconversion illness is the worst, nastiest illness you've ever had. I think I was sickSick sinus syndrome, but it wasn't that bad. I've had food poisoningPoisoning first aid and that was 10 times worse then this. It's within the 14 day window to barely at the end of it, but I was under the impression that seroconversion illness happens almost immediately.
I don't like being in limbo. It's actually worse then being poz or neg. I'm a bit annoyed that the dr didn't suggest a PCR test. But I understand that the clinic has limited funds and needs to do the most with it and that they have a protocol they follow. I still feel like I should have been given the option.
A WB test would not have been performed unless the ELISA was reactive.
I would agree with your MD, however, that a PCR should not be done.
Now, for the brief lecture....and believe me, I have had mine before.
(1)You NEED to be using condoms for all anal/vaginal sex that you are having outside a committed, monogomous relationship. And even in a committed, monogomous relationship, you shoud be aware of the other partner's status.
(2) You state that you "ONLY had 3 partners in the last 14 days". That is a high-risk lifestyle. You lack of contiuance to using condoms is going to have you infected with HIV...someday, ...if not sooner than later.
(3) Your pase approach to having syphils before somewhat frightens me. You said that you have had syphilis before, and seem as though that it is no big deal. Well, it is. No less the fact that you are haivng HSV lesions on your tonsils is another facet that is alarming. You seem to be rather sexually active. Considering the past STI's and the mere fact that you are coming here today to ask us about a rather lengthy epsiode of your sexual health history demonstrates a sever need to be using protection ALL the time.
I do hope that you come out of this ok.
But please, unless your purposely looking to get HIV, you BEST be using condoms for sex. Putting on a condom only takes a few seconds dude!!
Read my #3 reply.
The MD thought that symptoms were indicative of primary HIV infection despite a antibody negative Elisa. I don't understand why a PCR wasn't run as it's nonsense to run a WB when there are not antibodies. I know this now, but at the time I didn't know any better and thought a WB was the best possible test.
What I was hoping is that some of the people here might have more insight into the small population, statistically, that I'm in. Indeterminate WB results are extremely unusual (.00004%) because it is typically used as a confirmatory test after a antibody positive Elisa. The fact that the MD ordered a more advanced test isn't a surprise. He genuinely thought it was a primary hiv infection. I'm not convinced that I was that sick. As for sickness, according to NYU's first call site (which I think is a reputable source), 80% of those infected with HIV experience what is called "seroconversion sickness." Everyone I know that has had it said it is the absolute worst cold you have ever had in your life. I'd like more information about that, but again can't seem to find it.
I am gay, so you are preaching to the choir there bud.
1. As for HSV, it is not stress-induced, FYI, that is an old wise-tale.
2. having syphilis is not a walk-in-the-park. Having a concurrent STI while having sexual relations with someone significantly increases your risk for HIV, for starters. That includes HSV, gonnorhea, or chlamydia. And besides, HSV in the mouth is NOT a common occurence, it may eb an oral ulcer, not HSV.
3. 50-80% of persons are the stated risks for seroconversion, and it is not like a cold, more like the worst FLU you would ever have.
4. I think the lecture is IMPORTANT. As much as you may not know me, I am telling you this (and writing this) in the sincere hopes that you see that someone does care. (The fact that I am spending a colossal amount of time writing this info.)
5. The confusion to whether or not you received an ELISA test is still unclear. Your MD should not have ordered a WB unless an