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Mental Health (Expert Forum)
fantasies in my head
Answered by
Roger Gould, M.D. - Mental Health, Wellness
Questions posted in the Mental Health forum are being answered by Dr. Roger L. Gould, author of the Mastering Stress and Depression program and affiliated with the UCLA. Department of Psychiatry. Topics covered include anger, attention deficit disorder (ADD), bipolar disorder, dementia, electroconvulsive therapy (ECT), learning disabilities, memory, obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), panic, personality disorders, phobias, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), schizophrenia, stress, transitions, and work problems.
fantasies in my head
by donttazemebro, Dec 20, 2007 09:56AM
Hi, I hope no one reading this finds this to be distasteful to read, but I could use an anonymous opinion. I'm a 31 year old guy...average white suburban middle class Joe, no history of extreme weirdness in my life. My question is why do I have the intense desire for my girlfriend to have sex with other men? I'm not bi or gay I assure you, well I might be .05% bi since I've vaguely "thought" about it a few times, but thats about it. Something about the scenario of her cheating on me, or somehow being very promiscuious turns me on alot. In some circles, this scenario is known as "cuckolding". She knows about my thoughts and doesn't have any problem whatsoever with it, but she won't outright do anything..."maybe some day who knows" as she puts it. The relationship we have is almost eerily idealistic in every way...we are a perfect match. So, do you think something is "wrong" with me?
Thanks for listening.
Thanks for listening.
Doctor's Answer
by Roger Gould, M.D., Dec 20, 2007 04:41PM
, Dec 20, 2007 04:41PM
To: donttaz
These kind of erotic fantasies are very common, and quite normal..there are many explanations for particular fantasies, but too complex to go into here.
