How long does HIV survive after ejaculation?

[JohnnyChicken]

I'm quite sure I am HIV negative, I have just gotten out of a monogamous gay relationship of 2 years, and have started dating a guy who has confessed to me that he is HIV positive. I am trying to inform myself of the risks and what exactly is low-risk behavior. We have shared mutual masturabation and oral sex so far, but I can't seem to find any information of when semen is exposed to the air, or any that agrees lets say. He tells me his doctor says the virus is dead after seconds when coming into contact with the air. Is it ok if he ejaculates on me, say on my stomach?

[Teak]

First off HIV is not alive. You cannot contact HIV from mutual masturbation. Yes he can ejaculate on your stomach without a risk.

[troggs]

What do you think about it when people engage in magnet relations, yet are concerned about transmisission?

[Teak]

As long as persons that are in serodiscordant relationships use condoms for anal and vaginal sex consistently there is no risk.

[LIZZIE LOU]

you know my son is part of a serodiscordant marriage.  their sex life is the same as everyone else...nothing is different.  a condom is NOT used until time of penetration.

no...lol...i dont sit around talking to my son about his sex life...but i do have an awesome relationship with my daughter in law.  she knows that i have spent the last few months educating myself and if she has any questions...she comes to me first.

[troggs]

Okay guys, good to know...

[troggs]

There is a video on YouTubewith the unfortunate title of-damaged goods that is a  doccumentary about serodiscordinant couples that addresses this. I presents all the perspectives that occur within these circles, it's somewhat intresting to watch, they could have done a little better job but it's still a decent segment.

[rohit_786]

Sorry for asking personal question , is your daugther -in-law also contracted HIV from your son ?. Or she is save as they used condom before ejaculation .

[troggs]

Lizzy said she is hiv (-) man.
She said thet are a serodiscordnant couple, one (+) one (-).
She also said the condom is used before penetration, not before ejaculation.

[troggs]

By she i mean her daughter in law.

[rohit_786]

I misunderstood , mixing someone else's incident . So if you have control in your ejaculations , you can penetrate w/o condom and when you think ejaculation time then you can put condom, would that be safe provided no pre-*** .

[Teak]

NO, you can't have unprotected sex thinking just because you didn't ejaculate that you won't contract HIV. Haven't you learned a thing?

[troggs]

Are you kidding man?
That's a BIG NO!
You gotta wear a condom all the way through, everytime and for all types of sex.
If you know that little about hiv i suggest you take a break from having sex and continue to really find out the facts my friend.
That even a bad technique for trying to prevent pregnancy.
Hiv is transmitted via contact with blood /bodily fluids -vaginal secretions/semen & mucus. So this practice will leave you open to transmission Rohit, read up my friend, you don't know enough about hiv..

[mike_no]

Rohit,

You awfully need some sex education, see a counselor at the earliest !

[Torontoindie]

I had protected oral sex and then wore one more condom for vaginal sex with a SW in Toronto.
I didn't check if the condom was broke. but after the climax I was lying on the bed while she removed the condom quickly (within 10 sec after climax) but I was lying on the bed for the next 5 minutes. I have a fear that, there might be some fluids spilled over the bed which might cause problem.  

I took an elisa rapid test at two weeks 2 days that was -ve, Please help me if there is any early detection test?
This is seventh week, should I take another elisa now or wait for the 12th week.

I am so scared, not able sleep or concentrate on anything. plz help

[troggs]

You have nothing to worry about or test for, your completley in the clear on this one.