Faked Orgasms

[SeriousSam]

My partner gets upset that I don't always orgasm.  And when I mentioned that she doesn't always orgasm she stated "but she's supposed to be able to know how to make me come".

Now to be fair to her I have always been this way in the first few months of a relationship.  Her concern about me orgasming can sometimes get distracting though (meaning bothersome). Soo have any guys faked orgasms before?  And what is the female perspective on this?  I will probably post this on the men's health too.

[mommy2katrina]

I would say it's less of an issue that you are not having an orgasm and more that you are faking them (if you are).  If you aren't but you are thinking about faking it just so she will get off your back about it, that may not be the best thing to do for the relationship.  

I personally do not have problems with my husband having an orgasm, rather it's always been the other way around, but I never fake it.  He knows that I don't orgasm during sex, I never have and probably never will.  I always let my husband know that nothing is "wrong" with him, that it isn't his fault I don't have an orgasm, so he doesn't end up feeling guilty every time we have sex.    

I don't blame him of course, as you probably don't blame your partner, but for your partner to feel somewhat responsible if you don't orgasm is probably natural.  I would say just let her know that you don't want her to be so concerned about it.  Just let her know how you feel about it and try to be honest with her.