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about virginity

by c_no, Jan 15, 2008 07:35AM
'm 23 yrs old girl, & i did intercourse 2 months ago. now i feel that my periods are becoming irregular n with less bleeding. Before this, my periods were regular & i was having heavy bleeding... now i feel uneasy in my stomach & i'm missing my period this month... i'm so worried about my married life that will my husband know about my intercourse?? or what can i do for my health( means my periods...) i'm getting so upset & want help from u that will my past distroy my coming future?? & Now i'm not virgin girl? plz help me...
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by spade22, Jan 15, 2008 07:50AM
Have you taken a pregnancy test?

Your future husband will not be able to tell you are not a virgin - a lot of women break their hymen before they have intercourse.  If you had sex, you are no longer a virgin - you can never take that back.  As for "the past destroying the future" that is all how YOU perceive it.  Again, this is not something you can take back so why dwell on it?  What is done is done.

by c_no, Jan 15, 2008 09:11AM
To: spade22
hello..
thanx 4 ur advise... & i've not taken a pregnancy test b'coz we used condom. but still 'm worried about uneasyness in my stomach... it caused a lot of stress on my mind. i dont knw y its happening to me..  is it any infection or sumthing else?

by spade22, Jan 15, 2008 12:10PM
It could definitely be caused by stress.  Stress can cause a number of problems including loss of menstrual cycle for several months.

I dont know what you mean by "uneasiness in your stomach" but if you are experiencing anything unusual such as pain, usually bleeding, unusual discharge etc. it would be a good idea to see a doctor for a routine check-up and pap smear.  If you are feeling nauseous, that could well be from stress.

by jdlk, Jan 15, 2008 03:02PM
Stress could be causing you to miss your period and to feel sick to your stomach.  The more you think about it - the more stress you will put on your body.  It seems that you feel guilty about having sex and that you have just destroyed your future.  You need to relax and listen to what spade22 has written to you - your future husband will not be able to tell that you are not a virgin.  You hold the future in your hands now....  You are a young woman with her whole life ahead of her - as tough as it seems right now, you have to pick yourself up and learn from this experience.

According to what you have written on your profile - you are 23 years old - you have lots of time to find the guy who loves you and not just your body.  Because this has caused you so much grief, it might be beneficial for you not to have sex anymore until you are married and are ready for it.

by c_no, Jan 16, 2008 02:34AM
To: spade 22
uneasiness in my stomach means i feel like the skin down to my  navel is dead & n sumtimes i feel irritation by touching it. we had sex on 27.10.07 wid condom. My period date was 10.10.07. After that on 9.11.07, it was Dewali festival  & i jumped so much(in dance). n next morning i saw bleeding. i thought it was my period... & it lasted for 1 & half day. after that it again happened & my period came on 12.12.07  n remain 4 only 1 day. in this month i'm missing period. Can u tell me what's going on in my body? or may be possible that i become pregnant after 2 months...???? ( i'm so confussed, n just don't know who to get rid of this situation...:(( )

by c_no, Jan 16, 2008 02:41AM
To: jdlk
thanx 4 ur kind advise..

u r right. i really felt guilty about'ving sex.. but ur advise filled me wid courage.. i've now hope to live lyf ahead.. Rest is in God's hand...

by c_no, Jan 16, 2008 07:41AM
To: spade 22
i forgot to tell u one thing that i do've unusual discharge sumtimes & sumtimes there is itch on my vagina....  

by cindy82, Jan 16, 2008 09:41AM
yould gotten a std or a yeast infection

by c_no, Jan 16, 2008 10:38AM
To: cindy82
hello

thanx 4 Ur reply...

can u plz tell me what would be its treatment? i can't talk to anybody about this situtation. Plz tell me about medicines, so that i can cure this std.. :((

by c_no, Jan 16, 2008 10:47AM
To: cindy82
'm i missing my periods due to this std or yeast infections???

by c_no, Jan 17, 2008 07:36AM
is anybdy here who can help me??

by cindy82, Jan 17, 2008 12:40PM
hey, its hard to tell what you have by not knowing all the symtoms in detail. if you just have a yeast infection you can treat it with over the counter medicine if you have it there, if its a std you have to go see a doc. thats how it is in the states. im not sure about where you live. your best bet is to see a doc as they could help you more. good luck

by c_no, Jan 17, 2008 03:14PM
To: cindy82
thanx dear......

going to c doc. 2mrw..

thanx again

by cindy82, Jan 17, 2008 05:34PM
k, let us know how it turned out. good luck!!!