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Advice needed - FRUSTERATED

by jennifer_251987, Jan 15, 2008 08:27PM
Ok, I haven't posted a whole lot on this site yet, b/c im new to infertility issues. WE've been TTC for 5 months, no luck. Been going to the doc, and I probably have PCOS, I had a pelviv transvaginal ultrasound today to make sure. I will starl clomid if/when I start. ANYWAY, Im SO frusterated b/c I know this girl who just had twins last night. Throughout her pregnancy she was on/off bedrest but continued to work. She never slowed down - basically she didn't take care of herself. I offered to help her if she needed anything through out her preggo period, but she snubbed me. I know I am just upset b/c Im having trouble TTC, but hers was an accident, and she gets doubly blessed. I'm upset b/c it doesnt seem fair...I want another baby so bad, I try to explain to my husband, but he doens't understand the urge I have, as a woman, for another baby. (We have one 14 month ol wonderful mama's boy). I am so thankful for my son.... but, I want someone for him to grow up with. Ladies, I need some advice on how to keep from screaming. LOL... hopefully someone else can share my frusterations and help me out a lil...please....
Jennifer
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by Tanker Chic, Jan 16, 2008 06:09PM
I know it is hard.  I've been there also. For me I just never stopped believing that it will happen. It didn't happen in the way that I thought it would, and it took way longer than I ever imagined, but I never doubt for a minute that it would happen.  You are seeing a dr and starting clomid. You have a lot to be excited about.  Try to focus on the opportunity ahead of you.  

Take care and good luck.
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