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Its very hard to say what exactly is the cause of the kidney failure. The infection if severe can cause renal failure. If there is dramatic fluid loss (persistent urine) followed by decrease in urine and obstruction of flow may actually have started paradoxically from the obstruction. There is a phenomenon of overflow or excess urine after a period of obstruction. How long the period of obstruction before this happens is hard to say. Some kidneys may fail in less than a day if there is obstruction.
What is more critical at this point it seems is the reversibility of the kidney failure. If there is now constant urine (although there is a need for catheters), it seems the kidneys have recovered.
The cause of obstruction would be best discussed with your doctor. One of the more common reasons for it would be strictures causing narrowing of the passageways of urine. The strictures occur as part of healing. Patients may regain adequate patency over time - but there is that period of catheterization.
Whether all of this heralds disseminated cancer is unlikely. IF the PSA dropped to the expected levels after surgery then dissemination is very unlikely. Weight loss is pretty non-specific - some men do tend to lose weight after surgery consciously or otherwise.
Discuss your concerns with your urologist at length, as he can give you a better estimate of how long you'll expect to keep with the cath.
Stay positive.