masturbate

[chinmay801]

Hi,

I am 22 year old guy........and the problem i m facing is that i masturbate daily around twice and i am not able to control..and i got suggestions from fnds and all they informed that i have to occupy myself with some work so that my mind wont divulge for that... but i couldnt do it.... now the problem is that i m becoming weak and also my Penis became very weak...i m very much afraid........i dont know whom to consult........pls suggest wat shld i do now?

[Vefafly]

Hello, chinmay108.
This is a problem you should take very slowly. Afterall, masturbation is normal for both men, and women. Try to control it to once a day, don't let friends tell you it's not normal. They probably do it more than you.
If you reach that goal, go on.

[slow_healer]

I agree with chinmay, and don't think that twice a day is too much. However, if you notice it's becoming a problem (your penis feeling weak) then make the effort to tone done - like chinmay said, try only once a day every second day, then everyday, and so on. Do it until you feel like this habit is at a healthier level for you. I'm curious - what are you afraid of? That it will affect your health?

[JamesParty]

Yeah, I agree with the both of you. Just take it slow man. Masturbating is fun and relieving, but just occupy yourself with other things. Maybe set a goal of not masturbating with a number amount of days or a week and see how things goo after that. And then you can reward yourself by doing your personal business (masturbating) when you reached that goal. Don't become a porn addict and over do it, but you seem normal to me.

[Mark1988]

I do it 4-5 times a day. It's great..

It's not abnormal or anything to worry about.

[Captain_Rit]

maybe not for you...... but it is for him.     it sounds liek a compulsion.    this is a sign of other mental problems.   you may want to see a therapist.

[NoHopeOrLove]

is it really normal for a girl?? i wouldnt want my girlfriend doing that makes me feel like im a failure

[el_dave]

Yes, it's completely normal, and if you can, get her to let you watch. It has nothing to do with failure on your part, it's a completely different thing that addresses different needs. Respect her for being human, man.

-El Dave