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where is the love??!!
by makyla, Jan 31, 2008 06:14PM
why is it soooo.....hard to find the right man to love you its always like the man that was ment to be with you is right there but you spend your hole life looking for them and there right there but you dont realize it and you end up passing up an amazing oppertunity in your life and then you end up feeling worthless and that theres no one truly out there for you is there really someone out there or is it that not every one falls in love because thats what im begining to think?????????????!!!!!!!
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The reality is that the only person who will always be there for you is YOU, so take good care of yourself and your support networks. Manage that, and that special someone will come seeking you. When you know you're going to feel particularly lonely, make plans. Hang out with friends. Watch a good show. Even though it can be hard to resist at times, sitting and focussing on how lonely you feel doesn't really do much to help you. When you can, spend that energy elsewhere.
You know something that really helped me when I was younger and feeling so desperate to have someone special in my life was writing. I used to write stories about female characters that I wished I could be more like, and about male characters who would help me overcome my inner barriers. Especially when you have a bad past with boys, sometimes just writing about a make-believe situation can help you work out some of those bad feelings. I always felt better after writing for a while, and it even helped me become a much better writer in school and at work. Try it. Keep it saved in a secret place and keep it only for yourself. It will be like taking your feelings and exploring them in a whole new way. It may also help you realize what you're really looking for sometimes, because often we fool ourselves into thinking that "this thing" will solve my problems, when really it has little to do with the problem to begin with. Good luck.
Just find a guy that can keep your interest, fall head over heels after months of seeing this guy, then theres your love :)
I'm a 17 year old guy which has never experienced love before, but I'm urging to find that type of girl somewhere out there just right for me. Good luck anyways!
Lets just say you will notice when you meet the one for you, when your with them it will bring you BEST qualitys out in you, your really happy around them, no one matters but them!
a girl i met back in April when i see her i just want to be with ehr, but as she is seeing someone that makes it more difficult now. But she knows how i feel about her and she said she felt the same way. When you cannot be with this person it makes you feel worthless. But if you stay good friends with him/her your time will eventually come round.
just dont let anyone come between you! As that can really mess things up, trust me that happend a week or two ago :(.
So thats love!!!