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I'm a 57 year old man..I do not have a large penis..I have never had a problem pleasing a woman my entire sexual life. I don't know how old you are, but I would not trust those
things. I've seen the TV commercials, and the women are so happy with their now larger men and everything is wonderful. I still don't believe it.
Learn to live with what you have. Learn how to use what you have..Many women complain about men who are "too large".
Maybe those pills work, maybe they don't...I wouldn't trust 'em
Jim
As far as ED..how old are you? what kind of physical shape are you in?
Consult your doctor..are you under a lot of stress? Blood pressure problems? Diabetes? the presription medication helps with that situation but I'd get a physical from your doctor to check things out.
I'd also give up on these penis enlargement things. Learn to use what you've got and accept it and live with it. It used to bother me until I realized I was average..what you see in porn, etc, is definitely not average.
Jim
now i am married 4 (20y). one day i was joking with my wife and i told her that i won a free surgery to enlarge my pennis.guess what ?she got so mad.my wife had dated a guys before me all of them were very good looking and at least twice my size.but she swear that i am the best cause i know how to hit the wright spots at the right time and that makes her crazy.some will say oh probably she's with me because of the money? NO .she makes 3 times what i make or maybe she is fat...all that none sense.my wife is as hot as a model .
i was with 5 women before my wife in witch 3 (+my wife)experienced female ejaculation while having sex.so just be happy with what u have&what u have will make u happy.
Now, he doesn't know his own name.
He suffered a massive stroke. This is no joke.. Lakeland, Florida.
I too have that problem, can get semi-hard but wake up rock hard! Wouldnt this be more mental than physical?
On the lighter side, Frank17, I surely hope that your love making is better than your spelling! LOL
But you are right, the average Woman loves to look at a huge member but wants nothing to do with having it inserted.
Just like women wish they had larger breast, small ones are just as if not more sexy.
I also have same problem i,e my penis becomes hard but bcoz of stress and no concentration i becomes semi hard or no hard. I also have a problem i,e premature ejaculation. don't know what to do. I think it is bcoz of concentration and heat generated during the activity. I am sure it is all due to stress but indigestion, acidity etc also effects the desire and erection.
I will be thankful if you could share some techniques and rightly hiting spots, kindly quide which helps my wife and me get satisfaction.
I also don't beleive in medicines and creams, i have never used such and i think my size is also average not a problem..
Your suggestions will be appreciated..
Thanks
Samazan
I realize this because I too; when I with a certain girl, can get semi hard or even lose an erection; but in the morning, wake up ROCK HARD!
Why is this I ask myself?
The truth and the secret rests in the woman you're with.
Women are under the assumption that all they have to do is take off thier clothes, and we're supposed to instantly get an erection.
The truth is ( and I know that many of you men will agree ) men need three things in order to please a woman and get a good solid erection.
We need sound; the sound of the woman in ecstacy let's us know we're pleasing them.If a woman is silent, even if she feels good while we're stroking her; we don't know if she's pleased, so we lose confidence.
We need cooperation; that if a woman is not cooperating we get turned off seeing that she is a lame, or that she does not love you enough to explore.
And we need to know if our size is attractive to them.
How can we get aroused and ready to do the nasty if she thinks less about the size of your penis.
This is the chief problem of all of what men need because it takes away our confidence.
We know that we won't hear a sound from her because she is not pleased with our size.
We know that she will not cooperate because truly she is not feeling freaky enough to do what you want all because she is not attracted to your size.
Over all, women put so much stress on us because of their demands that we either lose erection, get semi hard, or just can't get an eretion at all.
But at the same time they wanna get made when they find out we're using erection products.
hm, the nerves!