some advice?

[stacey_fc]

I feel like im going insane. 2 days ago i was totally in love with my partner, and i woke up yesterday and just felt nothing, with this nagging feeling in my head that i had to end it. But i know i don't want to, deep down, because this guy is so incredibly special. Everytime i think about it, it makes me feel so, so sick and anxious, which makes me feel even more insane.
Im thinking maybe its just hormones and mood swings - i've been smoking alot of pot lately, and not getting much sleep. I was just wondering if anyone else has been in this situation, and what advice they'd give to me. I really don't want to end this relationship, but i am seriously going insane.

[teko]

Quit the pot and get some rest and I bet in another 2 days your head clears. You think? Get real here. People come on here for help to their problems. I think yours is self evident.

[slow_healer]

I agree with teko. Give the weed a break and let your head clear. Pot may relax you, but it also tends to take your emotions and exaggerate them by 10X. I'm not anti-pot, but there is a reason why long-term excessive use is linked to mental illness. Don't smoke when you need to make an important decision, or have something important (like how happy you are with your boyfriend) to think about - it warps your perceptions (which is part of what makes it so pleasant, right? It puts reality on a back burner for a while). Consider slowing down your use of it, and get some sleep.

[jo929]

get off the pot and wait until you can think straight also wait about decisions until you  no longer need the pot then decide  luck   jo

[stacey_fc]

thanks for everyones advice. teko - maybe you need to learn some tact before you start telling people whether their problems are 'self-evident' or not... like you said - people come on here to get helped, not to get patronised and ridiculed.
for everyone else's help, cheers!!

[teko]

You said it yourself as clear as day and you want what? Read your own post! You tell what the problem is and why! The solution is self evident! You do not have a problem other than your pot smoking and lack of rest. If you do not want to hear opinions, then do not ask for them.

[slow_healer]

That's right, teko. Because telling people to shut up if they can't figure out their problems on their own is the best way to help someone. What a great philosophy.

[teko]

Ahhh! Slow healer! Now just what would I do without your watchdog appearance. Was I talking to you? No, I was not talking to you! Do you feel lacking for attention again? I will damn well say what I have to say on these forums and if you do not like what I have to say then you can take a flying leap for all I care, Got It? Address the OP or move on.

[slow_healer]

I agree with your point about tact. It just leaves me to wonder why some people seem to enjoy getting angry at younger people who quite honestly haven't ever been told any better, and then wonder why young people don't want to listen to them. I suppose it's a generation gap that's meant to stay that way. Sometimes people are all too happy to point out how incredibly wrong you are; whether they make a valid point or not, that doesn't mean you should feel like a loser. Good for you for standing up for yourself.

[Elle606]

teko you didn't address the problem in a constructive way.  Why would expect other people to take your answer constructively. Seems a bit silly to me.  Someone of your years should surly have learned that when answering a question politely people listen and respond better.