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I'm I A Virgin?
by wonder26, Feb 07, 2008 10:36PM
I'm Asking This For My Girlfriend. She Was Raped By Two Diffrent Guys. The First Raped Her 2 Times. The Second Did It 7 Or 8 Times In 1 Week. The First Time I Didn't Know Her Yet. I Know Her When The Second Guy Did It. Shortly After The Second Guy Raped Her We Started Dating. I Lost My Virginity To Her And We Both Want To Belive That She Lost Her Virginity To Me, But She's Not Sure If She Was Still A Virgin When We First Had Sex. Was She Still A Virgin When We Had Sex? Did She Lose It To Me Or The First Guy? Please Shed Some Light On Our Problem.
Member Comments (5)
by SL345, Feb 08, 2008 05:19AM
To: wonder26
Physical acts can occur like rape and accidents, that can change your body. But from a psychological standpoint, you were her first sexual partner.
by jml1986, Feb 11, 2008 04:24PM
Rape can change the fact that your were her first. Losing your virginity is done hopefully by two people in love. I was raped before I consented to sex and the only one I count is the one I willingly enjoyed with my partner.
by wonder26, Feb 11, 2008 04:43PM
To: jml1986
She Feels The Same Way. She Is My Only One. She Is The Only One To Do Anything To Me. Even See Me Naked. She'll Be Glad To Hear This. Thanks For The Help.
by rose625, Feb 17, 2008 10:26PM
To: wonder26
She my have lost her actual virginity by being raped but as for the emoitional part of it I would say that when she decided to be with you she was making a decision that she wanted to make. In this sense I would say that she lost her virginty to you.
by wonder26, Feb 18, 2008 12:01AM
To: Rose625
Thank You. We Have Been Wondering This For About 3 Months.
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